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Hi everyone. Well Brad and I got into a huge argument. I decided that if he would not break up with his gf, that nothing could happen between him and I. I kind of let him have it. I told him that he was not only being unfair to me, but to his gf as well, and he apparently didn't like that and said that I was insulting him  I just cannot be a part of his cheating and told him that. I am so much more than that and if he cannot see that , oh well, he can go kick rocks, and I'll wait until a GOOD guy comes around!! |
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« Reply #1 on: December 19, 2007, 06:25:06 AM » |
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Good for you Karen.  |
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« Reply #2 on: December 19, 2007, 06:40:03 AM » |
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« Reply #3 on: December 19, 2007, 07:53:23 AM » |
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I just cannot be a part of his cheating and told him that.
I can totally relate to that statement Karen. When you find out you are being had it is time to split. You were right to give him a piece of your mind. There are much finer fish in the sea than that species. |
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« Reply #4 on: December 19, 2007, 11:04:12 AM » |
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Good going Karen...to thine ownself be true...that's what they say...whoever "they" are...  |
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« Reply #5 on: December 19, 2007, 11:10:54 AM » |
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« Reply #6 on: December 19, 2007, 11:11:59 AM » |
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Good for you Karen! Good riddance. YOU deserve the BEST.
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« Reply #7 on: December 19, 2007, 11:20:04 AM » |
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« Reply #8 on: December 19, 2007, 11:32:36 AM » |
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Well done! I bet it was very hard to tell him good-bye. Be proud of yourself for having the strength to let him go.
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« Reply #9 on: December 19, 2007, 12:31:38 PM » |
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« Reply #10 on: December 19, 2007, 01:11:47 PM » |
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 It takes a lot of courage to let someone go that meant something to you. My girlfriend was in the same situation, but the guy told her that he would not leave the girlfriend and he wasn't ready to give her any more either. She was so over the top in love with him and stayed with him for years. FINALLY, she'd had enough. I told her then that now she had time to find someone just for her. Well, she did about 8 months later and they plan on getting married! Time to heal then move on. take care
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« Reply #11 on: December 19, 2007, 01:55:12 PM » |
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Once you made the decision . You should have ignored him and waited for the
Christmas presents .... At least you would have gotten the lovely parting gifts
Actually I wish you the best of luck in you r new future . There is some one for everyone
Ummm sounds like a new topic coming on.
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« Reply #12 on: December 19, 2007, 02:15:10 PM » |
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Once you made the decision . You should have ignored him and waited for the
Christmas presents .... At least you would have gotten the lovely parting gifts
Actually I wish you the best of luck in you r new future . There is some one for everyone
Ummm sounds like a new topic coming on.
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Usually it is the guy that splits before Christmas so he doesn't have to buy presents.  Merry Christmas Karen you gave yourself the greatest gift. I hope you find someone worthy of you! |
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« Reply #13 on: December 19, 2007, 03:03:27 PM » |
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Good for you, Karen! You deserve someone better- I feel that if a man will do this to his present wife, girlfriend, etc- he is probably going to do it to whomever follows. Anne |
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« Reply #14 on: December 19, 2007, 03:15:58 PM » |
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I totally agree with Anne You deserve much better.  |
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« Reply #15 on: December 19, 2007, 03:51:20 PM » |
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I'm a good guy  You'll find a new one in no time flat.  |
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« Reply #16 on: December 19, 2007, 04:46:54 PM » |
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He is going to end up regretting it in the long run Karen, it was the best thing you could do (for yourself) Keep your chin up and keep that beautiful smile on your face my friend, YOU ARE WOMAN, LET US HEAR YOU ROAR GIRLFRIEND |
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