It sounded like he had feelings, he just knew they wouldn't go anywhere - I kind of interpreted that into instead of becoming the joke like most of the Bachelors become (since they never end up staying together more than a few months - besides Trista and Ryan) he decided to take control of the situation. I just like him
and um.... I am available
On a side note -- when Mom, Dad and I were in Paris about two years ago we noticed filming all over the city of all these woman... One time a bunch of girls in formal gowns on the steps of Tracadero overlooking the Eiffel Tower. Another, much more obvious time, a man in a tux and a woman in a gown on a private river boat enjoying champagne in a hot tub. We decided it must be for a reality dating show. Soon after we got back home they starting airing ads for the Bachelor: Paris! It was pretty fun watching it that season - especially that river boat date (which if I remember right, ended up being a disaster!)