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« on: July 31, 2007, 04:47:38 PM »
When I was on dialysis I met 3 very good friends in school.  After the graduation, all 3 successfully establish their careers, while I was in and out of the hospital.  I felt depress about the whole thing and lately they have sent me e-mail wanting to get together.  They were awared of my health problem but have no clue of CKD is like.

If I see them, I probably feel awark and have little common things to share with them.  I do want to reconnect with them but what should I share with them or pretend everything is fine and normal in my life.

Any advices greatly appreciate.
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« Reply #1 on: July 31, 2007, 05:40:07 PM »
I say Go have yourself a good time my friend,  enjoy reminiscing about the good times with them and just take it from there, although it is a major issue in your life, dont let it take over the conversation,  there is time for all that later.  Good luck and let us know how it goes (please) ;)  :popcorn;
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« Reply #2 on: July 31, 2007, 05:45:41 PM »
You have to remember you are successful at surviving a disease that wreaks havoc on lives.  Go and have some fun with your old friends!
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« Reply #3 on: July 31, 2007, 06:18:15 PM »
I don't think anyone without a chronic illness will understand what you're going thru.  That doesn't mean you can't have fun and share a friendship with them.  Go and have some fun.
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« Reply #4 on: July 31, 2007, 07:03:08 PM »
yeah, you should go, if you have the energy to.

one of the only things some of us have left is memories of the good times.

and, it's a good thing to bring awareness to people of what we go thru, i think.

party ON! :beer1; :grouphug; :yahoo; :2thumbsup; :popcorn; :wine;
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« Reply #5 on: August 01, 2007, 05:30:39 AM »
Yes, by all means go for it, it will be good for you .
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« Reply #6 on: August 01, 2007, 10:06:18 AM »
Yeah, I will go for it and have a blast with them just like the way it was in college.  All of you are awesome.
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« Reply #7 on: August 01, 2007, 11:09:29 AM »
I'm glad you decided to go.
Enjoy yourself and have a good time.
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« Reply #8 on: August 03, 2007, 09:54:50 PM »
Hope you have fun and share some ol memories   :grouphug;
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