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« Reply #25 on: July 22, 2007, 08:10:24 AM »
I'm sure a $30 internet charge is not going to make or break you.  But, I use to work next the to department that made farm loans and people would not make their loan payment but they had 5 dogs and cell phones and laptops, and ipods, and I would see them out at Restaurants etc....   

I'm not saying anything except we ALL could do with a lot less.

Susie, look on Craig's list for Part-time jobs at home.  If you can do this site and you do it very well!!!  Very well!!!  Then you could do some work at home and get PAID for it.  If we could pay you for your work at this site you would not have a Mortgage problem!!  Please feel free to use me for a professional reference.  (we did work together~)

Best of luck.....   www.craigslist.com
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« Reply #26 on: July 23, 2007, 08:41:30 PM »
Susie i am sorry about your mortgage problem. I have lost everything to bankruptcy. It took awhile to start over but i am doing the best i can. Allot of these company's don't care how you feel or what you are going through. Best of luck.
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i am a 51 year old male on dialysis for 3 years now. This is my second time. My brother donated a kidney to me about 13 years ago. I found this site on another site. I had to laugh when i saw what it was called. I hope to meet people from all over to talk about dialysis.
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« Reply #27 on: July 23, 2007, 08:50:47 PM »
This must be one of those times where you really do feel like just a number, not a human being. There is nothing worse than feeling so dehumanised.

To hear how much some people have lost and suffered due to their kidney disease makes me really sad. Nobody CHOOSES to have this disease.

My husband and I are struggling really badly with our mortgage, and it has certainly led to unnecessary arguments over money (which is stress that nobody needs) but we have managed to hang on to our house, despite the struggle. So I consider us very lucky. But I feel for my husband who works hard all week, and gets virtually nothing to spend on himself after he's paid the mortgage, the bills, bought the groceries and paid for my medicines.

My dog Chloe (the smaller one in my avatar) needs a suspicious lump removed from her tummy, and I can't afford it. I've been watching the lump grow bigger for months now, and it just makes me cry. Losing her would be every bit as bad as losing my house, for me.

I just realised I'm ranting. All I wanted to say is that I feel for all of you, and many of you have lost an awful lot more than I have. Group hug -  :grouphug;
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« Reply #28 on: July 23, 2007, 09:30:45 PM »
Sorry to hear that Susie, that really sucks. Wish I could help you my friend. My thoughts are with you.
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« Reply #29 on: July 23, 2007, 10:14:47 PM »
Oh my goodness Susie, I cannot believe this and I am so mortified over this.....I will pray and light candles over this.....

I am so sorry this is happening to you......can't you get a bank to refinance for you?  I sure hope so.....

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« Reply #30 on: August 02, 2007, 08:24:04 AM »
Hope things are working out for you...

Happy to provide "assistance" if needed!  :boxing;

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« Reply #31 on: August 03, 2007, 03:13:34 AM »
Quote from: goofynina on July 16, 2007, 08:47:41 PM
I just got off the phone with my mortgage company and let's just say, it didnt go well.  Does anyone have any tips they can tell me on how to stop foreclosure?  I am sure he was just doing his job but he started telling me to shut off my cable, get rid of my cell phones and get this, he told me to get rid of my internet  :o  THAT'S when i lost it  :boxing;   Let's just say i gave him a piece of my mind, a good piece at that, now i am thinking i should've bitten my tongue  :oops;  Well, the good news is, if we do lose our home and become homeless, we just might be able to make the Vegas trip  :2thumbsup;  But to be honest,  i love my house, i want to keep my house and damn this disease anyways  :banghead; :banghead; :banghead; :banghead; :banghead;

Hi Susie
Are you any nearer to getting this sorted?
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« Reply #32 on: August 03, 2007, 10:57:54 AM »
We filled out some papers for Loss Mitigations (whatever that is) now we are just waiting to hear from them (and waiting and waiting and waiting) :p   Thank you each and everyone of you for your concerns, you truly are the best and i love you all....  :grouphug;
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« Reply #33 on: August 24, 2007, 03:07:17 PM »
Quote from: goofynina on August 03, 2007, 10:57:54 AM
We filled out some papers for Loss Mitigations (whatever that is) now we are just waiting to hear from them (and waiting and waiting and waiting) :p   Thank you each and everyone of you for your concerns, you truly are the best and i love you all....  :grouphug;

WOOHOOO  :yahoo;  Loss Mitigation went through, they lowered our house payment and as of a couple of days ago, we are all caught up, WHEW, what a relief that is  :bow;  (now, staying caught up is another story) :P ;)   ::)  :-\
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« Reply #34 on: August 24, 2007, 03:11:01 PM »
Good for you guy's at least your a step ahead in the right direction. :yahoo;
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« Reply #35 on: August 24, 2007, 03:25:14 PM »
 :clap; Good to hear that you are able to keep the house.




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« Reply #36 on: August 24, 2007, 03:36:36 PM »
I am so very happy for you, Goofynina    :) ! 
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« Reply #37 on: August 24, 2007, 04:10:54 PM »
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« Reply #38 on: August 24, 2007, 04:15:05 PM »



 :cuddle;  Great news. Maybe you can celebrate in Vegas!!    ;D
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« Reply #39 on: August 24, 2007, 04:26:07 PM »
Tomorrow is another day----- so glad things are a little better.  You deserve life to get a little easier.  Hurray for loss mitagation!!!!
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« Reply #40 on: August 24, 2007, 05:42:52 PM »
Goofynina, that's fantastic! I hope that careful budgeting will be enough to help you stay afloat, it's all so hard I know! But you still have your home and that's the important part.
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« Reply #41 on: August 24, 2007, 06:01:52 PM »
susie thats fantastic news  :clap;
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« Reply #42 on: August 24, 2007, 06:30:59 PM »
Just saw this, Susie.  So happy for you!!  :2thumbsup;  :yahoo;  :2thumbsup;
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« Reply #43 on: August 24, 2007, 07:43:56 PM »
Thank you all for being there for me (and each other) as life's little challenges occur, friends and family like you all are the best thing to have  :grouphug; :grouphug;
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« Reply #44 on: August 24, 2007, 09:02:20 PM »
Hurray!
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« Reply #45 on: August 25, 2007, 04:09:11 AM »
Oh, and I forgot:   :beer1;
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« Reply #46 on: August 25, 2007, 04:24:58 AM »
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What a relief for you.
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« Reply #47 on: August 25, 2007, 04:44:50 AM »
What fantastic news!!

Glad things are back on track.

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« Reply #48 on: August 25, 2007, 11:15:28 AM »
What great news to hear!
Glad things are looking better for you.   :yahoo;
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« Reply #49 on: August 25, 2007, 02:09:13 PM »
There is no place like home. Good for you.
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