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Jill D.
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« on: June 05, 2007, 09:07:39 PM »
My daughter was married last Friday...civil ceremony, we will be having a Christian ceremony on June 16th in my sister's back yard. Danielle (my daughter) dropped "the bomb" on us the weekend prior to Memorial Day weekend, so we have had about 4 weeks to prepare. Actually, once I got over the shock, I am rather enjoying the ease of planning a small wedding and forgoing the BS that goes along with a large, months-of-planning, church wedding (not to mention the expense!)

No, she's not pregnant! Her (now husband!) is a Marine (MP), and has been on active duty since Jan. 2003 and did a tour in Kuwait and 2 in Iraq. As of this January he has been in the inactive reserves and has until Jan. 2011 in the reserves. Three weeks ago he received a letter that they want him back...if he goes voluntarily he may be able to get placed on a base that is currently not deploying troops; if he doesn't go now, he will be ordered later. Well, Casey (my new son-in-law) and Danielle apparently had made plans to get married in two years and this sped things up since they just don't want to be apart. I was concerned about a few things (amount of time they have known each other; Danielle finishing college; her age - she is 20 and he is 24, but I can't say much because I was 20 and hubby 23 when we tied the knot 24 years ago) but she is a smart cookie and they had discussed and made lists of pros and cons of different scenarios and this is what they really want. I was mostly sad about her moving as we are very close and I wasn't quite ready for this! However, I got a grip and reminded myself that children do grow up and leave.

The great thing is we really love Casey and they make a good match. I know his dad (he teaches and coaches football at our High School) and since his family lives in the same town I KNOW they will make trips back....maybe even settle back in Michigan, if the economy ever improves!

Just wanted to let you know what was consuming my time these days...along with work, physical therapy, drs. appts, lab appts...blahblahblah. You all know how it is - LIFE!!!!  :)
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« Reply #1 on: June 05, 2007, 09:16:35 PM »
GREAT NEWS. Congratulations!! to your Daughter and her new Husband.
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« Reply #2 on: June 05, 2007, 09:17:33 PM »
Congratulations! Sounds exciting. It is very hard to see them go and it takes a while but eventually you will adjust. I suspect your phone bills are about to grow huge. Take care of yourself, not too much stressing out now. I'm sure it will be perfect and a lot of fun. Be sure to post pic's for us.
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« Reply #3 on: June 05, 2007, 09:39:43 PM »
Congratulations!
Got any photos?   :pics;
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« Reply #4 on: June 05, 2007, 09:40:08 PM »
Hi Jill!

Congratulations to Danielle and Casey!  I wish them many, many years of happiness   :) !!

Hugs, Kelli
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« Reply #5 on: June 05, 2007, 10:24:29 PM »
Good news is always appreciated around here. I wish them many happy years together!
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« Reply #6 on: June 06, 2007, 09:02:27 AM »
Jill, I am so excited for you. I bet the day was lovely. You have raised her well and is the woman she is because of your example and leadership. It is hard to let them go into the world to make their own mistakes but they are in love and life is good. Is is wonderful you have something to celebrate and we always need good things in our lives to offset the bad. Oh to be 20 again --- young and in love, it doesn't get any better than that!!
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« Reply #7 on: June 06, 2007, 09:36:48 AM »
Congrats Jill!
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« Reply #8 on: June 06, 2007, 04:14:33 PM »
Great news Congrats!!
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« Reply #9 on: June 06, 2007, 06:31:52 PM »



 :yahoo;  That's wonderful news. I wish them a long and happy life together.    :grouphug;
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« Reply #10 on: June 06, 2007, 07:52:48 PM »
Awww, how sweet,  Congrats to Jill and the newly married couple  :wine; :wine; 
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« Reply #11 on: June 06, 2007, 09:15:38 PM »
 :clap; Congrats!   :bestwishes; to the bride and groom!
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« Reply #12 on: June 06, 2007, 09:20:52 PM »
 :2thumbsup;
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« Reply #13 on: June 07, 2007, 12:00:34 PM »
Congratulations!!  Love is in the air! :)
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« Reply #14 on: June 07, 2007, 04:44:18 PM »
Congratulations.  My daughter was just married 3 weeks ago.  Hey ,pretty soon we will be able to spoil their kids and then just give them back !!!  :)
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« Reply #15 on: June 08, 2007, 12:54:20 AM »
Quote from: Razman on June 07, 2007, 04:44:18 PM
Congratulations.  My daughter was just married 3 weeks ago.  Hey ,pretty soon we will be able to spoil their kids and then just give them back !!!  :)

And Congratulations to your daughter (and yourself) as well Razman  :2thumbsup;

 *singing*  ;musicalnote;  Love is in the aaaaaair  ;musicalnote;
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« Reply #16 on: June 08, 2007, 01:27:42 AM »
Congratulations to you Jill and also Razman. You both need to post some photos. I bet they both looked beautiful.  :bestwishes; Liz
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« Reply #17 on: June 08, 2007, 11:57:53 AM »
congrats Jill- I wish her well.
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« Reply #18 on: June 10, 2007, 06:16:12 PM »
Thanks for all of the well wishes...here is a pic from the "legal" wedding...after the ceremony on the 16th I will post the "real" wedding photos!









EDITED: resized pictured as requested-kitkatz,moderator
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Started hemodialysis in April 2006.
Received a new kidney from my sister on Dec. 5, 2006.
Transplant rejection in March, 2009
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« Reply #19 on: June 10, 2007, 09:38:03 PM »
She is gorgeous! Great couple.
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« Reply #20 on: June 10, 2007, 11:51:24 PM »
Aww Jill, that is a beautiful pic, cant wait to see more  ::)
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« Reply #21 on: June 10, 2007, 11:53:15 PM »
Thanks for posting this - they are a beautiful couple!
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Jenna is our daughter, bad bladder damaged her kidneys.
Was on in-center hemodialysis 2003-2007.
7 yr transplant lost due to rejection.
She did PD Sept. 2013 - July 2017
Found a swap living donor using social media, friends, family.
New kidney in a paired donation swap July 26, 2017.
Her story ---> https://www.facebook.com/WantedKidneyDonor
Please watch her video: http://youtu.be/D9ZuVJ_s80Y
Living Donors Rock! http://www.livingdonorsonline.org -
News video: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J-7KvgQDWpU
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« Reply #22 on: June 11, 2007, 12:15:08 AM »


 :cuddle; Beautiful Photo. Can't take their eyes off each other. They look very happy together.   :)
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« Reply #23 on: September 09, 2007, 04:17:54 PM »
I have many awesome pics of my daughters wedding, but I have issues with trying to size them! Here is one that she sent to me (this will also publish in our local paper)
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Received a new kidney from my sister on Dec. 5, 2006.
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Sister-in-law approved as donor in Dec 2009
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« Reply #24 on: September 09, 2007, 04:26:40 PM »
Ooops....here's is the photo (I hope!)




EDITED:  Resized photo to size allowed - Goofynina/Admin.
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Diagnosed with FSGS in1990.
Started hemodialysis in April 2006.
Received a new kidney from my sister on Dec. 5, 2006.
Transplant rejection in March, 2009
Approved for second transplant in May 2009
Sister-in-law approved as donor in Dec 2009
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