I told the kids at school about my hubby's accident. One kid got up and limped across the room in front of me. The accident had just happened so I had absolutely no idea what to say to the kid. How incredibly rude!!!Katherine
Okay, I have just have to add this story. A few years ago my family took went on a vacation to Yellowstone National Park. My mom, who has since passed away, had rheumatoid arthritis and was in a wheelchair. I was pushing her on one of the boardwalks in the park. You're correct, people definitely do stare at you. But, then, I tried to turn the wheelchair and the front wheel slipped in between two cracks in the boardwalk and I couldn't get it out. All of the sudden, not only was no one staring at us any longer, they all acted like they couldn't see us at all! I'm struggling valiantly to lift the wheel out of the crack and no one will even look at us, let alone offer to assist. Finally, I had to ask a couple of guys to help me (which they very willingly did) and we were able to get the chair out.I thought then, I hope that I can be the type of person who wouldn't have been staring in the first place ( I mean, it's a WHEELCHAIR, not a UFO!) and I also hope that I will be aware if someone needs assistance, and I'll at least offer to assist. Maybe they won't want or need my help, but at least I'll know I tried.