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« on: August 15, 2017, 12:16:12 PM »

After a very difficult 10 months on dialysis, my husband, Ashton has passed away.  He fought a long battle against kidney failure, and never gave up.  Please keep our teenage son in your thoughts.  Thank you all for the help navigating this awful disease.  I wished our outcome had been different, but I was fortunate to have the time I did with him.  He was the love of my life. 

http://www.ejfieldingfh.com/obituaries/Ashton-Daigle/
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« Reply #1 on: August 15, 2017, 01:29:55 PM »

I'm so very sorry for your loss.  I too lost my husband, the love of my life, so I have some understanding of your pain.  I hope for the best for you and your son.  Be well.
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« Reply #2 on: August 15, 2017, 01:52:57 PM »

I am so sorry, this is my greatest fear.  Your husband was just a couple of years older than mine.  This disease really sucks.
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« Reply #3 on: August 15, 2017, 02:03:40 PM »

I feel sadness for the loss of your husband.  May the universe bless you and your family as you go through this time.
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« Reply #4 on: August 15, 2017, 03:33:27 PM »

I'm so very sorry for your loss.  I too lost my husband, the love of my life, so I have some understanding of your pain.  I hope for the best for you and your son.  Be well.

I am so sorry to hear that.  It is very painful.  I hope the best for you as well.
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« Reply #5 on: August 15, 2017, 03:34:44 PM »

I am so sorry, this is my greatest fear.  Your husband was just a couple of years older than mine.  This disease really sucks.

Take good care of yourself.  You'll be in my thoughts.
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« Reply #6 on: August 15, 2017, 03:35:19 PM »

I feel sadness for the loss of your husband.  May the universe bless you and your family as you go through this time.

Thank you
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« Reply #7 on: August 15, 2017, 04:25:07 PM »


Condolences, and Prayers.

None of us are guaranteed much.  Sad we lose the ones we wish to share so much more with.
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« Reply #8 on: August 15, 2017, 04:26:01 PM »

Sorry for you and your son's loss. 
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« Reply #9 on: August 15, 2017, 04:59:01 PM »

The one thing about this disease is that it takes courage to make the good fight,  you may not always win but the dignity is is in the struggle with this disease.  Unfortunately death is not rare and certainly painful for the family and friends.  You and your son will be in my prayers. 
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« Reply #10 on: August 15, 2017, 05:34:47 PM »

So very very sorry for your loss.
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« Reply #11 on: August 16, 2017, 03:17:18 AM »

Dear AshtonsMuse,
I am very sorry for your terrible loss
and I send you and your son my sincere condolences.
Kind thoughts to you both from Kristina. :grouphug;
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« Reply #12 on: August 17, 2017, 12:28:57 PM »

Thank you for all your kind words and thoughts. 
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« Reply #13 on: August 17, 2017, 12:41:07 PM »

I am so, so sorry.  I had really hoped he would do well on dialysis and feel better.  Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers. 
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« Reply #14 on: August 17, 2017, 01:05:01 PM »

So sorry to hear this. Please know that prayers will be said today for you and your son.
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« Reply #15 on: August 17, 2017, 02:45:32 PM »

Oh, it makes me so sad to hear this.  I'm so sorry.
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« Reply #16 on: August 22, 2017, 05:28:17 AM »

Thank you, all, for your kindness.  His passing was sudden and unexpected.  I think I am still in shock.
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