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« on: February 02, 2016, 06:07:39 AM »
I am crying. My friend, and Del's lovely husband has died. I wish I could change this. I want to go back in time and make this go away, but I can't. I know Del is devastated, because I am. Life just isn't fair.
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« Reply #1 on: February 02, 2016, 06:15:20 AM »
I am so terribly sorry to hear this. Thanks for letting us now WillowTreeWren. Don't know what to say really. Tell Del we're thinking of her.

Lots of love and strength to all of you, Cas
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« Reply #2 on: February 02, 2016, 06:15:56 AM »
Damn.

Rest in peace Walt.

Del, we can only offer our condolences. I am very sorry to hear about Walt.
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« Reply #3 on: February 02, 2016, 07:15:12 AM »
I am so sorry to hear this Del.  Please take comfort in knowing we all care and love you.

               :'(
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« Reply #4 on: February 02, 2016, 07:25:19 AM »

Sincere condolences to Dell.


It is absolutely maddening that in this day modern medicine still fails and many infections are still have such devastating effect in such a short time.

Hopefully the Dr's will have further labs done and learn enough from this to make a positive difference on the next.
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« Reply #5 on: February 02, 2016, 09:03:13 AM »
Oh no!  I am so saddened by this.  I lost both of my parents to blood infections.

Del, you are in my prayers.  I wish I had the power to change the world for you.
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« Reply #6 on: February 02, 2016, 10:13:57 AM »
Dear Del,

My prayers are with you and Walt.

Love,
--Zach
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« Reply #7 on: February 02, 2016, 10:19:51 AM »
Sorry, stay strong Del.
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« Reply #8 on: February 02, 2016, 11:37:59 AM »
This saddens my heart.  My love and prayers are sent Del's way to help her deal with things.
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« Reply #9 on: February 02, 2016, 04:02:07 PM »
Oh. I'm so sorry, Del.  That is such a profound loss (I lost my husband too, so I know).  I wish you well.
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« Reply #10 on: February 02, 2016, 08:11:35 PM »
This news breaks my heart. So very very sorry, Del.
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« Reply #11 on: February 03, 2016, 04:54:20 AM »
Such sad sad news. I hope that Del can take some small comfort in knowing how many of us are thinking of her and sending our love. Life is definitely not easy nor is it fair.
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« Reply #12 on: February 03, 2016, 03:06:56 PM »
http://www.centralfuneralhomes.ca/book-of-memories/2372391/Stone-Walter/service-details.php


Walt's details
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Ivanova: "Old Egyptian blessing: May God stand between you and harm in all the empty places you must walk." Babylon 5

Remember your present situation is not your final destination.

Take it one day, one hour, one minute, one second at a time.

"If we don't find a way out of this soon, I'm gonna lose it. Lose it... It means go crazy, nuts, insane, bonzo, no longer in possession of ones faculties, three fries short of a Happy Meal, wacko!" Jack O'Neill - SG-1
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« Reply #13 on: February 03, 2016, 07:13:39 PM »
For Walt

It is funny how
when someone lives with us
they enrich our lives in ways
we do not even notice
until they are gone.
Their idiosyncrasies,
Their weird ways that drive us crazy,
Endearing them to us in memories.
Laughter echoes in our minds
From things said and done.
Friendships made, lost, and made again.
Relationships that came and went,
Some that lasted so long they became
Part of the lives shared between.
Lives led over the years.
Memories made for the keeping.

The universe embraces and enfolds
The soul in starlight.
Returning it to where it began.
How do we know they continue?
They return and wander through
Our hearts and minds
Every now and again.
Remembering of them
Brightens our lives.
Keeps us living in the light
That is our universe.


By Katherine Soto
c. February 3, 2016
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Ivanova: "Old Egyptian blessing: May God stand between you and harm in all the empty places you must walk." Babylon 5

Remember your present situation is not your final destination.

Take it one day, one hour, one minute, one second at a time.

"If we don't find a way out of this soon, I'm gonna lose it. Lose it... It means go crazy, nuts, insane, bonzo, no longer in possession of ones faculties, three fries short of a Happy Meal, wacko!" Jack O'Neill - SG-1
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« Reply #14 on: February 04, 2016, 04:48:59 AM »
Very nice Kit.

I hope Del can take comfort in knowing many of us, who never even met she or Walt except on line, are truly sorry for her loss. :(
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« Reply #15 on: February 04, 2016, 04:51:34 AM »
So very sorry.
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« Reply #16 on: February 04, 2016, 07:23:25 AM »
Kit, thank you so much for adding the link. And your poem is lovely. Thank you, thank you.

Walt was a rock. And funny, and sensitive, and just so very, very special.

Del will have to be so strong, and having us behind her will help. It isn't everything, but it is something.

And thanks to whomever split this off as a separate thread. I'm still so devastated.

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« Reply #17 on: February 04, 2016, 07:59:02 AM »
Am sorry of this passing.  God Bless their family through their difficult time. 
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« Reply #18 on: February 04, 2016, 04:01:51 PM »
My condolences and prayers.  The only bad thing about this place is the knowledge of the fine folks who have passed.  For his wife I hope she can cherish the years they were together. 
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« Reply #19 on: February 04, 2016, 06:19:19 PM »
Thank you all so much for the kind words.  I have been surrounded by family and friends.I keep thinking about what he would have wanted.  I can hear him saying " I'm gone give up the crying and move on" of course there would be a few other words mixed in there!!  He was my husband and my best friend and I loved him dearly and I will miss him everyday of my life .  He always told me he did not ever want me to be along and to move on with my life and enjoy myself.  it will be hard but I will try to do my best to do what he wanted me to do.  My plan is to move closer to family -absolutely no family where I live now. I have at least a 4 hour drive to visit a family member.  For a while I will just visit different people until I decide where I want to live.  It will be a very different life style for me but I will adapt. Who knows, I may do some traveling and come visit some of you guys.  Thank you.  Your kind words really help a lot.  :grouphug;
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« Reply #20 on: February 05, 2016, 01:09:11 AM »
So sorry  Del. Thinking of you.  Xox
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« Reply #21 on: February 05, 2016, 06:03:12 AM »
I am very sorry to hear this and thanks for letting us know WillowTreeWren.
I am so sorry Del and I am thinking of you
and I send you my kind regards
from Kristina. :grouphug;
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« Reply #22 on: February 05, 2016, 01:19:54 PM »
Quote from: del on February 04, 2016, 06:19:19 PM
Thank you all so much for the kind words.  I have been surrounded by family and friends.I keep thinking about what he would have wanted.  I can hear him saying " I'm gone give up the crying and move on" of course there would be a few other words mixed in there!!  He was my husband and my best friend and I loved him dearly and I will miss him everyday of my life .  He always told me he did not ever want me to be along and to move on with my life and enjoy myself.  it will be hard but I will try to do my best to do what he wanted me to do.  My plan is to move closer to family -absolutely no family where I live now. I have at least a 4 hour drive to visit a family member.  For a while I will just visit different people until I decide where I want to live.  It will be a very different life style for me but I will adapt. Who knows, I may do some traveling and come visit some of you guys.  Thank you.  Your kind words really help a lot.  :grouphug;

You are ALWAYS welcome here!  :cuddle;

xoxoxox

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« Reply #23 on: February 06, 2016, 05:21:50 AM »
You are most welcome here in Toronto too Del.  :cuddle;
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Home haemo 1980-1985 (self-cannulated with 15 gauge sharps)
Cadaveric transplant 1985
New upper-arm fistula April 2008
Uldall-Cook catheter inserted May 2008
Haemo-dialysis, self care unit June 2008
(2 1/2 hours X 5 weekly)
Self-cannulated, 15 gauge blunts, buttonholes.
Living donor transplant (sister-in law Kathy) Feb. 2009
First failed kidney transplant removed Apr.  2009
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« Reply #24 on: February 09, 2016, 02:07:54 PM »
Del was my Secret Santa, and I have only just read this.  I am so very sorry to read this.  another one of our Warriors loses their battle.  I am so sad,
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