I really don't understand how my brother-in-law got in such bad shape. He went to all of his appointments. He moved next to the hospital for a year. And it is one of the top hospitals. After the way things went for him, it was pretty scary when they called me to say my kidneys weren't doing well. The first thing out of my husband's mouth was "You are not getting a transplant". But we'll cross that bridge when we come to it.
Thank you to everyone for the responses. It's nice to hear the stories of improved quality of life. It instills hope. Corahv the reason it was acute was the he had to have an imaging study of his heart which required contrast dye two days before he died. When he went in for the test his numbers were not good enough. So they put him in the hospital and got his levels up. But it wasn't enough apparently.