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« on: June 21, 2015, 10:36:30 PM »

Hi everyone! I'm 28 years old and just started my dialysis journey. I have urate nephropathy and have known about it since I was 15. My kidney function has just been slowing declining since then. My GFR is currently at 10 and I had my PD catheter placed last month. It is still in the process of healing and I'm currently just receiving weekly flushes. I have been on the transplant list for 2 years and 4 months. My husband was being tested to be my living donor and was a perfect match but during the last round of tests which included a CT scan they found cancer in one of his kidneys. That obviously ruled him out for being my donor and he just had surgery to have his cancer removed and is doing great :) I actually met him in high school when I was 15 and had just found out about my kidney disease so he has been by my side through all of this. There are others who are being tested but it looks like I will not be able to skip dialysis which was our hope. My husband and I are extremely active, and I have continued to work this whole time. I work at an animal shelter and absolutely love my job. I've definitely had my ups and downs during this whole process but I try really hard to remain positive because that is sometimes the only thing that gets me through. I've already been glancing through a lot of the posts and there seems to be a lot of great information here. Feel free to ask me any questions! -Ashley
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« Reply #1 on: June 21, 2015, 11:08:07 PM »

Welcome, ashleyasherman! Take a look around, this site has much to offer in the way of answers and support. You'll find other people here who are working and doing dialysis (I believe there is a thread for it on the main page). My husband does home hemo and still works fulltime. Not easy tho but can be done with the right planning and learning how to pace yourself. You're very lucky to have such a supportive husband/carepartner at your side and sounds like he is equally as fortunate to have you by HIS side right now! Good luck to you both and again, welcome!

Wanted to add that your work with animals is admirable. I'm sure you already know this but animals are "smart people"...they know when to listen, when you need comfort or when you just need a good laugh.
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Husband had ESRD with Type I Diabetes -Insulin Dependent.
I was his care-partner for home hemodialysis using Nxstage December 2013-July 2016.
He went back to doing in-center July 2016.
After more than 150 days of being hospitalized with complications from Diabetes, my beloved husband's heart stopped and he passed away 06-08-21. He was only 63.
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« Reply #2 on: June 22, 2015, 07:45:14 AM »


I hope PD works as well for you as it has for me.  Two years last month with ZERO problems other than watching my diet a little bit, and taking a potassium supplement.

Keeping careful attention to your catheter site and connections to avoid any infections isn't really that difficult.  You will soon develop a regular procedure and stick to it.  Again, not difficult.

I was doing manuals the first year so to be available to let any or all of our 3 dogs and 2 cats out during the night.  Since losing a couple to age I have since switched to the Cycler and discovered how neat it is just setting up once daily in the evening, connecting and receive all my treatment during the night.  Get up in the morning and disconnect, DONE.  My evenings are cut a bit short as I connect at 7, but I read, watch TV, and have my laptop so I can stay occupied for the couple 3 hours til I'm ready to go to sleep.

All in all, I think PD is a great choice, if possible.

Good luck, and Take Care,

Charlie B
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« Reply #3 on: June 22, 2015, 01:26:18 PM »

Welcome to the site ashleyasherman

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Take care, Cas
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I started out with nothing and I still have most of it left

1983 high proteinloss in urine, chemo, stroke,coma, dialysis
1984 double nephrectomy
1985 transplant from dad
1998 lost dads kidney, start PD
2003 peritineum burst, back to hemo
2012 start Nxstage home hemo
2020 start Gambro AK96

       still on waitinglist, still ok I think
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« Reply #4 on: June 22, 2015, 01:57:35 PM »

Thank you for the warm welcome PrimeTimer! I love everything about working with animals, especially in a shelter environment. It's hard but very rewarding :)

Charlie B, I hope PD works for me as well as its worked for you. My doctor and I chose that option because it sounds like it can fit in with my active lifestyle better. I'll start training with the cycler at the beginning of July. I'm excited but also nervous at the same time. I just feel like there's no going back once you start if that makes any sense.
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« Reply #5 on: June 22, 2015, 03:40:49 PM »

Hello and welcome to IHD.  When you get you kidney transplant you will have to watch being around cat boxes or cleaning them.  Your immune systme will be lowered.  Something in cat urine.  Pregnant women also should not empty cat boxes. 

Hope you get one soon. 

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« Reply #6 on: June 24, 2015, 05:46:59 AM »

Welcome to the site. I believe you will find much useful information here. I only started about 3 months ago and it has been very helpful. A the very least to know you are not all alone in the crappy journey!

Good Luck and God Bless
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VT Big Rig
Diagnosed - October 2012
Started with NxStage - April 2015
6 Fistula grams in 5 months,  New upper fistula Oct 2015, But now old one working fine, until August 2016 and it stopped, tried an angio, still no good
Started on new fistula .
God Bless my wife and care partner for her help
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« Reply #7 on: June 28, 2015, 03:38:33 PM »

Hello Vt Big Rig...

 :welcomesign; to our community...

Great to have you on board...

Visit and post often....

God bless...

Darth... Moderator....
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Cared for my late mum, Elsie who had Kidney Failure... Darling mum died on July 15th 2014... May her gentle soul rest in peace....
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« Reply #8 on: June 28, 2015, 03:57:07 PM »

Welcome ... I'm a new member, my husband is on CAPD.Lots of info and friendly folks with CKD and their caregivers. hope all goes well with you.
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« Reply #9 on: June 28, 2015, 06:10:19 PM »

Welcome!

My husband also does PD and it works great for us.  Best wishes to you as you begin your journey.  If you have any questions ask away!

~Nikki~
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I am a caregiver to my wonderful husband,  He is 4p and started PD October 2013. We have several living donors waiting to be tested for a transplant. Dialysis is a bridge to get us where we need to go. 
He had a transplant in November 2019.
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« Reply #10 on: June 28, 2015, 08:53:31 PM »

It's really good to have you here. Thanks for joining our community!
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Uninterrupted in-center (self-care) hemodialysis since 1982 -- 34 YEARS on March 3, 2016 !!
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No transplant.  Not yet, anyway.  Only decided to be listed on 11/9/06. Inactive at the moment.  ;)
I make films.

Just the facts: 70.0 kgs. (about 154 lbs.)
Treatment: Tue-Thur-Sat   5.5 hours, 2x/wk, 6 hours, 1x/wk
Dialysate flow (Qd)=600;  Blood pump speed(Qb)=315
Fresenius Optiflux-180 filter--without reuse
Fresenius 2008T dialysis machine
My KDOQI Nutrition (+/ -):  2,450 Calories, 84 grams Protein/day.

"Living a life, not an apology."
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« Reply #11 on: September 24, 2015, 12:03:34 AM »

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