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« on: February 13, 2014, 08:48:43 AM »
Tomorrow I am taking my partner Drew away for the weekend to a nice hotel for a weekend of pleasure and pampering for Valentine's.
Four poster bed, valentine dinner with champagne, breakfast in bed, the whole shebang!!!!
He has been my partner for nearly three years. When we first met I had had my second transplant and was fit and well and enjoying life. Within 4 months
of meeting my kidney started to fail. I got sick, I was in hospital, I wasn't the same person. He could have run for the hills or left me, but he didn't. He
stepped up to the plate, stayed with me through everything and when I then caught a hospital superbug and was unable to even walk or look after myself,
he did everything for me. When I whinged or cried or wanted to give up, he remained as patient as ever. A year on, things are better but not perfect. He is still here!
So my Valentine's gift is to thank him for everything and for being an amazing partner, friend and carer through thick and thin.

 :guitar: happy Valentine's Day everyone!
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10 years of half a life
3 years HD 1st transplant Feb 08 failed after 3 months
Back to HD 2nd transplant Dec 10 failed after 11 months
Difficult times with a femoral line and catching MSSA (Thank you Plymouth Hospital)
Back on HD (not easy to do that third time around)
Fighting hard (two years on) to do home HD ... watch this space!
Oh and I am am getting married 1/08/15 to my wonderful partner Drew!!!
The power of optimism over common sense :)
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« Reply #1 on: February 13, 2014, 08:55:51 AM »
Off Topic can not have anything to do with kidneys failed or working......

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I'll let it go this time as we need a thread on Valentine's Day!    :cheer:

I'm buying my friend Dean a balloon and tying a bag of homemade peanut brittle on it and delivering it to his work.  I'll pretend to be a delivery person and just leave.  I was not going to pay $20 for someone to deliver it.  I can do it as no one knows me there.

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« Reply #2 on: February 13, 2014, 11:21:00 AM »
Sorry!
Couldn't decide between off-topic or under carers!!!!!
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10 years of half a life
3 years HD 1st transplant Feb 08 failed after 3 months
Back to HD 2nd transplant Dec 10 failed after 11 months
Difficult times with a femoral line and catching MSSA (Thank you Plymouth Hospital)
Back on HD (not easy to do that third time around)
Fighting hard (two years on) to do home HD ... watch this space!
Oh and I am am getting married 1/08/15 to my wonderful partner Drew!!!
The power of optimism over common sense :)
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« Reply #3 on: February 13, 2014, 01:04:48 PM »
Well, wherever this belongs, Sugarlump, I hope the two of you have a wonderful weekend!!  Your guy sounds like something special!  Have a very happy Valentine's Day!!
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« Reply #4 on: February 13, 2014, 01:08:08 PM »
Quote from: MooseMom on February 13, 2014, 01:04:48 PM
Well, wherever this belongs, Sugarlump, I hope the two of you have a wonderful weekend!!  Your guy sounds like something special!  Have a very happy Valentine's Day!!
Thanks Moosey x I finally got lucky, met this guy for a coffee and have never looked back  :2thumbsup;
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10 years of half a life
3 years HD 1st transplant Feb 08 failed after 3 months
Back to HD 2nd transplant Dec 10 failed after 11 months
Difficult times with a femoral line and catching MSSA (Thank you Plymouth Hospital)
Back on HD (not easy to do that third time around)
Fighting hard (two years on) to do home HD ... watch this space!
Oh and I am am getting married 1/08/15 to my wonderful partner Drew!!!
The power of optimism over common sense :)
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« Reply #5 on: February 13, 2014, 03:57:24 PM »
Awwww. I luvs the happy ending stories!

Happy Valentine's Day to YOU, Sugar!

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« Reply #6 on: February 13, 2014, 05:53:29 PM »
Have a Happy Valentine's Day!  It sounds like you have thought about everything for a great time, Sugarlump.   :)

I love Valentine's Day but I'm a bit scared today!  My boyfriend is known for giving really strange presents.  Bag of apples, anyone?   ???
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« Reply #7 on: February 13, 2014, 07:12:16 PM »
I got a vacuum cleaner for Christmas once from my husband.  Before anyone gasps in horror, I am one of the cheapest people on the planet.  I will whine and complain about something not working right for eons before I break down and buy a replacement.  Our vacuum was not cutting the mustard, so DH spent an afternoon on his own at the department store investigating vacuums and I am sure driving the sales person mad with questions.  Came home with a great vacuum that we both have used for years.   ;D  I've been complaining about our sump pump discharge pipe (it's frozen and needs to be unfrozen before the weather heats up next week) so if I come home to a length of new PVC pipe for Valentine's Day, I know he will have been listening  :rofl;

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Have a Happy Valentine's Day!  It sounds like you have thought about everything for a great time, Sugarlump.   :)

I love Valentine's Day but I'm a bit scared today!  My boyfriend is known for giving really strange presents.  Bag of apples, anyone?   ???
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« Reply #8 on: February 13, 2014, 07:16:28 PM »
Valentine's Day! Bah, Humbug!!!
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« Reply #9 on: February 14, 2014, 09:22:50 AM »
Quote from: UkrainianTracksuit on February 13, 2014, 05:53:29 PM
Bag of apples, anyone?   ???

*chuckles* ... it's the thought that counts! 

Sugar, have a fabulous weekend!

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« Reply #10 on: February 14, 2014, 12:13:17 PM »
Sugar, hope you have a wonderful weekend. Well deserved, for both of you. So, now, you have to suffer thru my Valentines story, cuz, well, we don't need two V-day posts. Bob and I got married in June of 1997. On V-day in 1998, we were married 8 months and we went out to celebrate. While we were gone, our house burned down!!! What a shock, to suddenly realize you had nothing except the clothes on your back and your cat who lost control at lease twice, while we drove around looking for a motel. (hint: Valentines Day, there are few if any vacancies.) But, in the end, it all works out, and you have to know that neither Bob or I EVER have left the house at the same time on Valentines Day!!!!
All celebrations are done in these 4 walls!!!
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« Reply #11 on: February 14, 2014, 01:03:14 PM »
I was all HAPPY today and bought a nice heart balloon that said "Happy Valentine's Day" and clipped some homemade Peanut Brittel on the end and a nice card and took it to my friends work (we are both 52 years old) and I took it in and was just acting like I was a deliver person.  I said this is for "his name" and she said:  (Drum roll)

"Oh, how nice are you HIS MOTHER"   Stab stab to my heart.   ???  I just said "no just the delivery person"

If I had thought I should have politely asked for a pair of scissors and popped the stupid balloon and smashed his peanut brittle and said "Would his p*cking Mother do this"??  and left.  But I didn't!

My God I look 72!  I hate Valentine's Day!  The only good thing is it is my dear sister's birthday!  Otherwise I just hate it.    :banghead;
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« Reply #12 on: February 14, 2014, 01:45:39 PM »
Quote from: galvo on February 13, 2014, 07:16:28 PM
Valentine's Day! Bah, Humbug!!!

Galvo, I think you need some TLC!

 :guitar:

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« Reply #13 on: February 14, 2014, 04:36:24 PM »
Quote from: galvo on February 13, 2014, 07:16:28 PM
Valentine's Day! Bah, Humbug!!!

I'm with you brother!    :cuddle; 
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« Reply #14 on: February 14, 2014, 08:07:05 PM »
Quote from: Rerun on February 14, 2014, 01:03:14 PM
"Oh, how nice are you HIS MOTHER"   Stab stab to my heart.   ???  I just said "no just the delivery person"

That's when you say, "Obviously I'm not his mother because I'd be teaching you some ****ing manners not to ask stupid questions."  Don't let this twit get you down.  I'm sad her stupidity ruined your day. 

Over here, the strangeness continued.  I got a tube of the infamous toothpaste "made with gold".  And a case of bottled water.  And a gigantic plush pink dragon.  ??? It makes no sense.
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« Reply #15 on: February 15, 2014, 05:05:56 PM »
Hubby surprise me with chocolates and a card in bed when I got home from dialysis at 3am.  I thought I was lying on his book when I laid down on the bed in the dark.  I saw it and smiled.

My friend Marilyn found WWE Valentine's cards.  She knows me well.
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« Reply #16 on: February 16, 2014, 06:07:47 AM »
Thank you for all your wishes x
We had a fantastic weekend and am really chilled out. The hotel was just great (photos on facebook if you're a facebook friend!)
Now have to wait to see if I have hospital bed for tomorrow!!! :P
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10 years of half a life
3 years HD 1st transplant Feb 08 failed after 3 months
Back to HD 2nd transplant Dec 10 failed after 11 months
Difficult times with a femoral line and catching MSSA (Thank you Plymouth Hospital)
Back on HD (not easy to do that third time around)
Fighting hard (two years on) to do home HD ... watch this space!
Oh and I am am getting married 1/08/15 to my wonderful partner Drew!!!
The power of optimism over common sense :)
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« Reply #17 on: February 16, 2014, 07:17:44 AM »
Quote from: Rerun on February 14, 2014, 01:03:14 PM
"Oh, how nice are you HIS MOTHER"

 :o

*huggles*

Quote from: UkrainianTracksuit on February 14, 2014, 08:07:05 PM
Over here, the strangeness continued.  I got a tube of the infamous toothpaste "made with gold".  And a case of bottled water.  And a gigantic plush pink dragon.  ??? It makes no sense.

*chuckles* - he sounds a real catch!  Bless him! At least he tries ...

 ;D
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