Many think that nature and nurture both play complex roles; most people experience little or no sense of choice about their sexual orientation. http://www.apa.org/topics/sexuality/sorientation.pdf
And now Hamas has gone and declared war on Israel. Why do I doubt that Obama will offer one iota of help to our strongest ally in the Middle East?Ricki
Quote from: Hemodoc on November 14, 2012, 12:10:18 PMMany think that nature and nurture both play complex roles; most people experience little or no sense of choice about their sexual orientation. http://www.apa.org/topics/sexuality/sorientation.pdfSo, if a gay man experiences little or no sense of choice about their sexual orientation, how does God want him to live his life? This is the third time I've asked this question, and I'd really like to hear God's answer.
Hemodoc, I've never claimed to be a biblical scholar, so you are going to have to translate that for me. In today's world, and on a day to day basis, how does God want to see a gay person living his/her life? Does God preach celibacy for homosexuals? If homosexual relations are a sin, then does God want homosexuals to lead a purely platonic life? Does living a celibate life equate to being "present with the Lord"?
because she's given up all sex with ANYONE except her spouse.
will the fundamentalist pro-life Christians who believe homosexuality is a sin still want to carry the child to term?
Dear Moosemom,I don't believe I will be able to answer your questions in any acceptable manner without further questions of my answers.
Quite simply, God states to go and sin no more to all of us what ever those sins are.
Your understanding of God can only improve by reading and seeking God in your own life. That's the best I can do Moosemom. It really is in your corner, read the Bible for yourself, the King James Bible is written at a 5th grade level.
Rerun, OMG, does Dean blame his FATHER? Oh God, that's just horrible if that's the case! Dean blamed his father for his own sexual sins? Really? Please tell me I've misunderstood! So, why isn't Dean's younger brother homosexual? Did their father play more "macho" games with him? Was he one kind of dad to Dean and another kind to his younger brother? Did Dean ever elaborate on this point? I'm REALLY curious!
Quote from: Hemodoc on November 14, 2012, 02:38:39 PMDear Moosemom,I don't believe I will be able to answer your questions in any acceptable manner without further questions of my answers. Why not? Are you afraid of my questions?QuoteQuite simply, God states to go and sin no more to all of us what ever those sins are.Ok, so I am going to interpret that to mean that if you are homosexual, you must stop having homosexual relations, which is really to remain celibate because to pretend to be straight and to marry is tantamount to lying to your spouse. Would that be about right?QuoteYour understanding of God can only improve by reading and seeking God in your own life. That's the best I can do Moosemom. It really is in your corner, read the Bible for yourself, the King James Bible is written at a 5th grade level. I don't happen to know any fifth graders who speak in the way the King James Bible is written, and I don't appreciate the implied insult. And who are you to assume that I have not/am not seeking God in my own life? I've always thought that I could come to you for answers to my questions, but lately it seems that the only replies I get from you are derisive and unhelpful, so I'll stop now, OK? I'll find someone else to talk to. Thanks, anyway.
MoosemomAs a Christ-follower myself, I feel a need to comment.I think according to the culture of the day the Jews who wrote most of the Bible considered homosexuality (at least male-to-male homosexuality) to be a serious taboo. There is a whole list of sexual taboos listed in Leviticus Chapter 20 that would be titillating enough for anyone! A major point though is that a Jew's sense of cultural identity and nationhood was (and is) uniquely strong in the history of the world. Even the Romans gave up trying to absorb them and finally just about wiped them out. And even so a remnant always survived that and many other great Holocausts. The non-Jewish nations had all sorts of sexual behavior that to THEM was not seriously abnormal. In Roman culture, for example, it was common for young men to engage in homosexual activity because (at least among the senatorial and equestrian classes) it was common to wait until the age of 31 to get married. An earlier enemy of the Israelites was the Philistines--and their primary god was likely similar to the Roman god Priapus...who sported an exaggerated and out-of-proportion item representating a certain male body part if you get my drift. So part of the Jewish laws may have been xenophobic in nature and designed to maintain the cultural and biological "purity" of the Jewish people. As represented in the Bible, violations of this code was usually considered a capital offense. And we as members of the Christianized West were handed down many of these cultural mores as replacements for what was considered the hedonistic behavior of the "heathen" nations. It is hard to break such deeply embedded taboos.As a Christ-follower, I don't consider it my job to approve or disapprove of anyone's lifestyle. I know what is right and wrong TO ME because I'm influenced by Jesus Christ's teachings and lifestyle and that is the standard. I strive to keep my focus on Jesus and let God worry about what everyone else is (or is not) doing.
Hemodoc, I really think MM is just trying to figure out if the Bible has any specific passages that say if homosexuals should remain celibate.MM - You might just try a google search. "Does the Bible address homosexuality?" pops up an awful lot of discussions. A quick skim of the first few I've looked at seems to focus on the male and female being made in pairs, the woman being a helpmate to the man, and man and wife cleaving together, as well as plenty of places where homosexuality is condemned as a sin. As for remaining celibate - I'm thinking that's the default option, even if it's not a commandment from on high."If a man also lie with mankind, as he lieth with a woman, both of them have committed an abomination: they shall surely be put to death; their blood shall be upon them." (Leviticus 20:13 KJV)Of course, Leviticus tends to stone people to death for a whole lot of things, so this doesn't really come as a surprise...
It appears you are trying to get me to justify homosexuality from the Bible in some manner. That is not going to happen since the Bible condemns that behavior. In any case, it is unlikely I can provide you the answers that you want since the Bible does not in any manner condone homosexuality in any manner at all. Sorry, but I don't have the answers to your questions.Take care,Peter
@ cariad, I didn't mean to say that there was no evidence of a biological reason for homosexuality. I just meant that to my knowledge, a specific "gay gene" has not yet been found, just as an "autism gene" has not yet been identified.
@jbeany, I know that there are some studies that have been done on the environment in the womb while a male fetus is developing. There were some thoughts that if the first born child was a boy, a second male child has a higher risk of being homosexual because the first male child rendered the womb more inhospitable to a subsequent male child. Evolutionary biologic theory opines that in the early days of mankind, females were more valuable than males.
I am a little puzzled, are you implying that the Jewish laws came from the people the Jews and were xenophobic, or are they instead God's Holy commandments as Moses testified and God's word alone?
Quote from: Hemodoc on November 14, 2012, 06:29:27 PMI am a little puzzled, are you implying that the Jewish laws came from the people the Jews and were xenophobic, or are they instead God's Holy commandments as Moses testified and God's word alone?Yes, and I will suppose many will consider me a heretic, but I believe that significant portions of the Old Testament were what the priests of the Hebrew nation (i.e., its government) wanted to represent AS God's position when it was really THEIR view of God's position. I sincerely believe that God inspired the history as it was written. But that He allowed the history to be written with all of its ugliness. Compare that to the ancient literature of almost all other cultures in which everything is sanitized. To me, the strongest evidence for this is that those who claimed to practice the Law most sincerely with all its added precepts from the Talmud and Mishna were the very ones who rejected the Messiah and had him crucified as a criminal by the Romans.When the Hebrew history "says" that God told them to enter some land and kill every man, woman, and child how is that different from some modern guy who says he killed his family because "God told me to do it"? We call men like that crazy.No, I think this is what I will call the Hebrew "Bad Ass" God. The leaders of Israel had a vested interest in promoting such a God to not only keep their own people in control but as a warning of bad consequences for their enemies. When they attacked Jericho and probably due to a timely earthquake the walls fell and they took the city it was to their benefit to depict the victory as miraculous intervention by their Bad Ass God. The interesting things to me is that I do believe God allowed their xenophobic depiction of God and everyone else as an example of how depraved a legalistic approach to religion can actually become. In the Middle Ages and beyond we saw this same sort of depiction of God when governmental and religious leadership were synonymous. Just to cite one example, take mandatory confession to a local priest. In an age when people rarely traveled, just imagine the power the "church" had when one man in the village knew all the "secrets" and had the power of banishment over transgressors who failed to toe-the-line.The Old Testament narratives can be compared to other parts of the Hebrew Scriptures such as those of the various Prophets who spent most of their time CONDEMNING those who were writing the history. The truly miraculous part, in my opinion, is that God allowed such unfiltered and immoral religiosity to survive all these thousands of years as an example of what NOT to do.Jesus rejected the prevailing views of the Hebrew priests and called them hypocrites, blind, and a "brood of vipers"! What Scriptures did they follow and what God did they project to keep the population under control? It wasn't the God represented in the flesh by Jesus Christ because that is the God they crucified.
@Rerun, yes, autistic people might marry, but it depends upon whether or not there is anyone out there who will have them.
It also depends on how disabled they are. I never thought my son would learn to drive, but he did. I doubt he will ever marry because I don't know if anyone else could accept him as he is, but I may be wrong. I hope I am because he is my only child and I have no brothers or sisters, and it would be really nice to have a grandchild. I think I'd feel less lonely in this world. I know he wants to get married. He has told me that he doesn't want to be alone, and that has always been my greatest fear for him, that he will end up alone.