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« Reply #50 on: September 20, 2012, 04:46:21 PM »
Prayers are with you.
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« Reply #51 on: September 20, 2012, 06:11:32 PM »
Thinking of you,   :grouphug;
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« Reply #52 on: September 21, 2012, 05:01:50 AM »
You're in my thoughts, sweet friend.  You and your entire family.

Love and Hugs.  :cuddle; :pray;
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« Reply #53 on: September 21, 2012, 12:58:36 PM »
Paris lost her dear husband today.  :grouphug;

I am torn with sadness for her and her family.
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« Reply #54 on: September 21, 2012, 01:34:47 PM »
And to think that some of us were in his company in Las Vegas less than a year ago...

I am so very sorry.  Words fail me.
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« Reply #55 on: September 21, 2012, 03:24:03 PM »
Quote from: willowtreewren on September 21, 2012, 12:58:36 PM
Paris lost her dear husband today.  :grouphug;

I am torn with sadness for her and her family.

 
Awww
It was good to have all or most of his family there.
 
I could not keep up on fb while at the doctors todays.
 
I still do not know what to say and the cards at the hospital just did not seem to fit the situation.
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« Reply #56 on: September 21, 2012, 06:48:24 PM »
oh Paris- I am so sorry  :grouphug;
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« Reply #57 on: September 21, 2012, 07:18:49 PM »
Profound condolences Paris, hoping for strength for you and your family.
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« Reply #58 on: September 21, 2012, 08:00:14 PM »
 :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( So sad.
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« Reply #59 on: September 21, 2012, 09:57:59 PM »
Sincere condolenes to Paris, Beth and the entire family.  The love and concern of your IHD family is surrounding you all at this time.  This is a loss to the IHD family.  I pray your strength at this time.
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« Reply #60 on: September 21, 2012, 10:02:29 PM »
God Bless and keep Paris and her family and friends as they mourn the loss of their loved one.
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« Reply #61 on: September 22, 2012, 12:48:50 AM »
So very sad for you Paris and for your family. Praying for your comfort of course. Know that your Hubby is now in the better place.
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« Reply #62 on: September 22, 2012, 01:35:16 AM »
So sorry for the entire family's loss....

May Barry's gentle sould rest in peace....

Darth...

God looked around His garden And found an empty place.

He then looked down upon the earth And saw your tired face.

He put his arms around you And lifted you to rest.

God’s garden must be beautiful He always takes the best.

He saw the road was getting rough And the hills were hard to climb,

So He closed your weary eyelids And whispered "Peace be thine".
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« Reply #63 on: September 22, 2012, 05:56:33 AM »
 :'( :'( :'(

Such a sad time.  Such a lovely man and his family too. 

 :grouphug;
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« Reply #64 on: September 22, 2012, 07:40:30 AM »
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« Reply #65 on: September 22, 2012, 10:20:49 AM »
My prayers are with the family at this time.  :grouphug; :grouphug;
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Remember your present situation is not your final destination.

Take it one day, one hour, one minute, one second at a time.

"If we don't find a way out of this soon, I'm gonna lose it. Lose it... It means go crazy, nuts, insane, bonzo, no longer in possession of ones faculties, three fries short of a Happy Meal, wacko!" Jack O'Neill - SG-1
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« Reply #66 on: September 22, 2012, 11:31:41 AM »
 :'( So awful sad..  My prayers for comfort dear ones.  Im so sorry.  :pray;
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« Reply #67 on: September 22, 2012, 12:55:27 PM »
My heart goes out to you, dear Paris.  Praying that you will find comfort...
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« Reply #68 on: September 22, 2012, 01:19:24 PM »
I'm so sorry to hear that. Condolences for Paris and her family, and friends

lots of love Cas
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« Reply #69 on: September 22, 2012, 05:33:26 PM »
My condolences to Paris and her family. Will be keeping you all in my thought and prayers.  :grouphug;  :grouphug;
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« Reply #70 on: September 22, 2012, 07:00:27 PM »
Quote from: Darthvadar on September 22, 2012, 01:35:16 AM
So sorry for the entire family's loss....

May Barry's gentle sould rest in peace....

Darth...

God looked around His garden And found an empty place.

He then looked down upon the earth And saw your tired face.

He put his arms around you And lifted you to rest.

God’s garden must be beautiful He always takes the best.

He saw the road was getting rough And the hills were hard to climb,

So He closed your weary eyelids And whispered "Peace be thine".

Paris, Im so very very sorry for the loss of Barry. I wish I had met him.  He had to have been a great guy.  Again, Im so sorry, and the quote above says it the way that I see it too.

Know that we ALL love you, and if you need anything, just ask. God Bless you all in this trying time!

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« Reply #71 on: September 22, 2012, 09:12:09 PM »
This is from Paris's Facebook:

"Yesterday, pain ended for my sweet husband and the pain began for our family. No one could write a better exit than what we experienced. All 4 kids, 2 dear friends, daughter in laws, David and Hatem, and Rev. Allen surrounded Barry, holding hands as Rev. Allen prayed lovely words about Barry and his homecoming. I layed my hand on Barry's chest most of the last 5 days and when his breathing was very slow, I tapped my fingers on his chest, waiting for each next breath. About half way through the prayer, I didn't feel his breathe, so I tapped gently waiting for the gasp. At the end of the prayer, the nurse stepped in and said he is gone. I knew already. But how many of us will take our last breathe while being prayed into Heaven? No more suffering. This has been a very fast journey and we were just beginning to comprehend how sick he was. He and I have been on a wonderful trip through life ---- 45 years and 1 month of marriage. It was a good life, a happy life. Memorial service will be Friday - more details will follow. I don't know how to do this; I'm getting through hour by hour. Thank goodness for my kids and grandkids, although, they are all devistated, too. The Lord is my shepard, I shall not want......."
 
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Mar 2010 - Started Aranesp shots - well into CKD4
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Apr 18, 2011 - Had fistula placed at GFR 8
April 20, 2011 - Had chest cath placed, GFR 6
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April 7, 2012 - ER admit to hospital, emergency surgery to remove large hematoma caused by biopsy
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« Reply #72 on: September 22, 2012, 09:51:50 PM »
So sorry for your loss, may he rest and peace.
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« Reply #73 on: September 23, 2012, 06:34:54 PM »
Thanks to all of you on Facebook for the updates.  I don't do facebook so I deeply appreciate the updates.
Paris he is looking down on you now. Watching his little Angel on Earth.  You were his ROCK in life!

RIP Barry!

lmunchkin

P.S. Praying for the loved ones left behind.  May God give them comfort.
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« Reply #74 on: September 23, 2012, 07:26:01 PM »
My deepest heartfelt prayers with you.  I had fears today of your same loss.  I said,,"i dont know how to do this"...  Your having to 'do this' and it hurts me real bad knowing what you must be going through.  Bless your hearts, and peace and Gods comfort be with you.  Im sorry... with love, jill and bo
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