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« Reply #25 on: September 18, 2012, 12:32:29 PM »
Folks...

I'm afraid the news as I can gather it is not good.... I've copied this from Paris's FB Page... As always, she has put it far better than I ever could....

'Please pray for acceptance. The doctor had the "talk" with Barry and I. Barry understands the gravity of his situation. Kidneys - liver-lungs- and heart all have some damage. Kidneys are shutting down. Breathing is difficult. The lungs have tumors and holding fluid. The kids and I are holding on to each other and clinging on to hope. Barry is not in pain and understands when we talk to him. It is very hard for him to talk. He is being kept comfortable. Thanks for all your thoughts and prayers. We all need them'.

Let's bombard Heaven... God know Liz, Barry, and their family need and richly deserve every prayer and good wish that they can get right now...

Love to all...

Darth...
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« Reply #26 on: September 18, 2012, 01:47:51 PM »
Will keep them in my prayers!
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« Reply #27 on: September 18, 2012, 02:37:08 PM »
 :'( :'( :'(
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« Reply #28 on: September 18, 2012, 02:49:31 PM »



      :grouphug;


and lots of love Cas
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« Reply #29 on: September 18, 2012, 04:01:42 PM »
I'm so sorry this is happening to Paris and her family. I will keep them in my thoughts and i wish them the best.   :grouphug; :grouphug;
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« Reply #30 on: September 18, 2012, 06:11:34 PM »
Nothing I can say or do will help in anyway.  It hurts to have this happen to such a couple as these two. God be with you all during this time. Its never easy, is it? One never knows what to say or do in situations like these.
But I do know that they are a family of Faith, and that will see them through this.

Know that You are loved deeply here Paris & Barry.  We are your family and we have all been praying for Barry, and of course the whole family.

God Bless you all,
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« Reply #31 on: September 19, 2012, 05:07:45 AM »
We support you Paris in every way.  We love you and are here if you need us.   :grouphug;
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« Reply #32 on: September 19, 2012, 07:08:22 AM »
Just spoke briefly on FB to Liz's sister, Jill... They're leaving now to be with Liz, Barry, and their family... I believe Barry's sister and brother are already with the immediate family at Barry's bedside....

This is what Jill posted on her FB page a few minutes ago....

'Elizabeth and their children are at Barry's bedside all day today. Please pray for peace and God's surrounding arms and love. It's such a sad time for us all'.

Please keep them in your thoughts and prayers...

I'll update as I hear more...

God bless everyone...

Darth...
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« Reply #33 on: September 19, 2012, 07:41:41 AM »
Spoke with Liz's sister again....

Yesterday, the doctors told Liz and their daughter, Beth to 'prepare'...

Thankfully, Barry is in no pain, and fully understands the gravity of the situation... He wants no extreme measures taken....

Please pray for peace for this brave family....

Love to all...

Darth...
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« Reply #34 on: September 19, 2012, 08:01:49 AM »
 :'(

Why does this have to happen to such good people? I suppose, I shouldnt put it like that, as no one deserves to go through that...

you all are in my thoughts and prayers.   :grouphug; :grouphug; :grouphug;
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« Reply #35 on: September 19, 2012, 08:25:33 AM »
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« Reply #36 on: September 19, 2012, 08:58:48 AM »
I don't know them, but still feel for them after reading all the posts...praying for the deepest form of peace to settle over the whole family, and allow the pure light of love to shine on.
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« Reply #37 on: September 19, 2012, 10:24:55 AM »
I do not know them but have been follow since they know Barry was sick. It seems so fast.  :o
Will keep the family in my prayer. May God's comfort, love and peace with them.
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« Reply #38 on: September 19, 2012, 11:00:59 AM »
 :'( This is just happening too fast.
I am so happy to have met Barry at our IHD meet ups over the years. We just cannot predict where we will be from one year to the next.
 :pray; Bless them all.
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Jenna is our daughter, bad bladder damaged her kidneys.
Was on in-center hemodialysis 2003-2007.
7 yr transplant lost due to rejection.
She did PD Sept. 2013 - July 2017
Found a swap living donor using social media, friends, family.
New kidney in a paired donation swap July 26, 2017.
Her story ---> https://www.facebook.com/WantedKidneyDonor
Please watch her video: http://youtu.be/D9ZuVJ_s80Y
Living Donors Rock! http://www.livingdonorsonline.org -
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« Reply #39 on: September 19, 2012, 12:29:29 PM »
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« Reply #40 on: September 19, 2012, 01:04:31 PM »
If you'd like to send a card to paris and family please send me a PM - they can use all the support they can get right now.
Things have rapidly changed. Please keep good thoughts.  :pray;
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Jenna is our daughter, bad bladder damaged her kidneys.
Was on in-center hemodialysis 2003-2007.
7 yr transplant lost due to rejection.
She did PD Sept. 2013 - July 2017
Found a swap living donor using social media, friends, family.
New kidney in a paired donation swap July 26, 2017.
Her story ---> https://www.facebook.com/WantedKidneyDonor
Please watch her video: http://youtu.be/D9ZuVJ_s80Y
Living Donors Rock! http://www.livingdonorsonline.org -
News video: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J-7KvgQDWpU
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« Reply #41 on: September 19, 2012, 04:26:52 PM »
Once again I am at my computer, hardly seeing what I am typing through the tears for my beloved Paris, Beth and Barry, as well as the entire family.  I am sending caring thoughts and healing prayers your way.  May the Lord give special grace at this time.
Your IHD family is with you all the way. :grouphug;
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« Reply #42 on: September 19, 2012, 08:01:54 PM »
Paris, you have been such an inspiration to me and so many others.  You and your family with be in my prayers, may the Lord bless you with peace and serenity. 
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« Reply #43 on: September 19, 2012, 10:18:10 PM »
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« Reply #44 on: September 19, 2012, 10:57:31 PM »
Quote from: okarol on September 19, 2012, 11:00:59 AM
:'( This is just happening too fast.
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I agree, this seems to just happened so fast and it was great to have met them in 2008 Chicago IHD meet
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« Reply #45 on: September 19, 2012, 11:19:28 PM »
From Beth's FB page four hours ago.....

'Please surround my mother and father with prayers of support and love tonight. We are surrounding his bedside and he knows how loved he is'.

Please pray with all your might... And if you don't pray, please spare them a thought....

Love to all...

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« Reply #46 on: September 20, 2012, 02:27:56 AM »
God Bless them
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« Reply #47 on: September 20, 2012, 04:05:58 AM »
 :grouphug; :grouphug; :'( Love to you Paris in this hard time.
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« Reply #48 on: September 20, 2012, 04:46:04 AM »
Looking to Heaven.  May God be with each and everyone of you.   :pray;

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« Reply #49 on: September 20, 2012, 11:17:35 AM »
Paris, Barry, Beth, our prayers are with you.

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