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« Reply #175 on: September 14, 2012, 09:18:47 AM »
We havent heard from you since the 6th. How is John and you doing?

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« Reply #176 on: September 14, 2012, 10:41:07 PM »
Definitely getting concerned here, especially since both of you were not feeling that great. Update soon, please!
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« Reply #177 on: September 17, 2012, 06:05:33 AM »
OH MY!  It's been a week and a half since last reply.  Anybody heard from JOHNSWIFE?????
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« Reply #178 on: September 17, 2012, 06:17:46 AM »
I can't help but be worried.

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« Reply #179 on: September 18, 2012, 12:19:14 AM »
Me too. This does not look any too good.
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« Reply #180 on: September 18, 2012, 05:49:37 PM »
You both are in our prayers, Johnswife.  Let us know! We are here for you!

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« Reply #181 on: September 19, 2012, 04:44:13 PM »
Been thinking of your family, your in my thoughts & prayers  :grouphug;
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« Reply #182 on: September 20, 2012, 08:50:42 AM »
Hello dialysis family. I'm happy to say John is still with us at about 9 weeks. Doctors cannot believe it!! He's weak, has fallen a couple times, he is still throwing up everyday, can't eat without diahrea following within minutes. Hes been freezing past couple of days so he been staying under alot of covers unless the wa sun come out and then he loves to sit out in it. He's not in any pain other than his back is sore from that fall. He does get very anxious though very easily and takes Xanax. That's the only med he is on period. He did say yesterday he can tell it won't be long; he said his heart just feels weak and worn out. He's had a few pretty bad headaches as well over last 2 days. Overall though he feels ok.

Thank you all for the prayers and kind words;)
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« Reply #183 on: September 20, 2012, 10:57:11 AM »
Wow - so glad to hear from you.
How are YOU doing?
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« Reply #184 on: September 20, 2012, 03:58:16 PM »
John is so amazing.

And yes, how are YOU?  :grouphug;

My thoughts turn to you every day.  :cuddle;

Envelope yourself in warm loving thoughts.

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« Reply #185 on: September 20, 2012, 07:33:25 PM »
I'm sure your heart aches to watch this. I can tell your love for him. Please take care of yourself as well.
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« Reply #186 on: September 22, 2012, 12:31:06 AM »
These are really hard times for you. You are a wonderful wife and caregiver, please stay in touch with us. Wow, 9 weeks. He is tough!!
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« Reply #187 on: September 22, 2012, 06:13:12 AM »
He is very tough.  I hope you're managing to take care of YOU as well. *huggles*
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« Reply #188 on: September 22, 2012, 06:58:14 AM »
WOW. Thats the only thing I can manage to say.  :grouphug; and  :pray; for you both.
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« Reply #189 on: September 22, 2012, 07:14:41 AM »
johnswife, Thanks for letting us know. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. You are two very brave people.
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« Reply #190 on: September 22, 2012, 11:34:47 AM »
blessings and prayers and  :grouphug;  I can only pray that you all get the comfort and peace you need.  with love  :cuddle;
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« Reply #191 on: September 24, 2012, 05:57:56 AM »
 :grouphug;  :grouphug;  :grouphug;

God Bless you and your entire family.  What a strong woman you are. 
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« Reply #192 on: September 24, 2012, 10:56:55 AM »
Thank you for taking the time to let us know John and you are doing.  I know this is a very hard time for you and I am amazed at your strength -- and John's.  I hope he gets some relief from the headaches, vomiting and diarrhea, it would be nice if you both could have a little peace through all this.     :grouphug;
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« Reply #193 on: September 24, 2012, 06:08:14 PM »
Hoping for comfort for you and John.   :cuddle;
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« Reply #194 on: September 24, 2012, 10:32:51 PM »
 :waving; Hi - thinking of you guys.
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« Reply #195 on: September 25, 2012, 05:42:38 AM »
Just wanted to add that I'm thinking of you guys too.
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« Reply #196 on: September 26, 2012, 08:55:06 AM »
Just a quick update--johns still with us and feeling a little better but his site where his pd catheter is looks very bad. It had some blood around it yesterday, looks very puffy and like its getting an infection. He refuses to go back to the hospital to try again and have his 2 catheters removed. If you remember the lady time he went to get them out they admitted him and tried to force dialysis--he left AMA and so for 9 weeks he's had the tubes chest catheter and pd catheter in him and not being used. I'm worried this infection will turn out bad but he just says I'm going a slow painful way now and maybe this will speed it up. He's truly miserable at this point. Itching is really getting bad to the point he's scratching sores on his legs.

His back is still very very sore from that bad fall as well; I'm positive he broke something but he just refuses to do anything but wait on death. Very sad.
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« Reply #197 on: September 26, 2012, 09:06:05 AM »
This is such a tough road for you to travel. Do make sure you are taking care of yourself.

John's itching is likely due to his potassium levels getting all wonky. I have that problem when I stray from what I'm supposed to do  ::) 

Just know we are thinking of you.
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« Reply #198 on: September 26, 2012, 09:25:08 AM »
Did you get Hospice involved? They can ease his pain as he waits out his last days, and they will be a help to you!

Loving thoughts are flowing your way.

 :grouphug; :grouphug;

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« Reply #199 on: September 26, 2012, 10:52:54 AM »
Greeting Johnwife,

Do you think it’s too late to get him some mental help?  Maybe a therapist can come to your house and talk to him.  It sounds like he is off balance and off reality with life.   Can you call a therapist and ask him or her for a home visit? 
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