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« on: June 12, 2012, 08:12:22 AM »

My parents are here visiting. Mom mentioned that my brother-in-law is being tested as a donor. This is the first I'd heard this. My sister didn't mention that her husband was considering offering to donate and I never talk to my brother-in-law myself, just to my sister. It sounded like he'd already contacted the donor coordinator the way she phrased it "he's being tested." He has ulcerative colitis. I'm not sure if that will rule him out or not. Just the fact that he'd make such a sincere offer is touching, especially since he's doing it without my knowledge - he isn't doing it for drama.
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1972: Diagnosed with "chronic kidney disease" (no specific diagnosis)
1994: Diagnosed with FSGS
September 2011: On transplant list with 15 - 20% function
September 2013: ~7% function. Started PD dialysis
February 11, 2014: Transplant from deceased donor. Creatinine 0.57 on 2/13/2014
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« Reply #1 on: June 12, 2012, 09:43:14 AM »

He sounds like a nice guy. Probably didn't want to get your hopes up if he doesn't qualify. Who knows? Maybe he will. Either way it was really great for him to try.
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« Reply #2 on: June 12, 2012, 10:46:17 AM »

My brother-in-law is that kind of guy too.  If it would make my sister's life better, he'd do anything.   He was the one who took care of me every day when I was staying with them after the transplant.  Lately, he's been giving me a lot of help and advice on my house.  It's good to have sisters with great taste in men, isn't it?   ;)
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« Reply #3 on: June 12, 2012, 11:03:32 AM »

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Jenna is our daughter, bad bladder damaged her kidneys.
Was on in-center hemodialysis 2003-2007.
7 yr transplant lost due to rejection.
She did PD Sept. 2013 - July 2017
Found a swap living donor using social media, friends, family.
New kidney in a paired donation swap July 26, 2017.
Her story ---> https://www.facebook.com/WantedKidneyDonor
Please watch her video: http://youtu.be/D9ZuVJ_s80Y
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« Reply #4 on: June 12, 2012, 02:16:57 PM »

Awww, how lovely Deanne.  I really hope something comes of this.  *huggles*
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