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gothiclovemonkey
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« on: May 17, 2012, 05:08:28 PM »
As a female, Im not very knowledgeble in matters of the penii, could someone direct me to a site or some info on it?
Like, how to deal with it or something?
Idk...
This is akward, but i have no one else to turn to...
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« Reply #1 on: May 17, 2012, 05:28:24 PM »
Want me to teach you?
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« Reply #2 on: May 17, 2012, 07:16:40 PM »
Quote from: Gerald Lively on May 17, 2012, 05:28:24 PM
Want me to teach you?
:rofl; That's awesome!

But what do you want to know? Mechanics? Causes? Treatments?
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Caregiver to Husband with ESRD.

1995 - Diagnosed with vesicoureteral reflux and had surgery to repair at age 11. Post surgery left side still had Stage I VUR, right side was okay. Both sides were underdeveloped.
2005 - Discovered renal function was declining, causing HBP. Regular monitoring began.

March 2008 - Started transplant evaluation for preemptive transplant due to declining function.

September 16, 2008 - Transplanted with my kidney.
September 18, 2008 - Kidney was removed due to thrombosis in the vessels in and leading to the kidney.

October 2008 - Listed in Region I

May 2009 - Started in Center Hemo
January 2010 - Started CCPD on Liberty Cycler

June 15, 2012 - Kidney transplant from a 43 year old deceased donor
June 22, 2012 - Major acute rejection episode and hospitalization began
June 27, 2012 - Nephrectomy to remove kidney after complete HLA antibody rejection. Possibly not eligible for another transplant, ever again.

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« Reply #3 on: May 17, 2012, 08:13:16 PM »
Quote from: smcd23 on May 17, 2012, 07:16:40 PM
Quote from: Gerald Lively on May 17, 2012, 05:28:24 PM
Want me to teach you?
:rofl; That's awesome!

But what do you want to know? Mechanics? Causes? Treatments?

Or how to counsel a man who has just experienced it for the first time?   ;D
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« Reply #4 on: May 17, 2012, 08:33:49 PM »
idk, a little of everything i guess?
i told him that it doesnt bother me, i love him no matter what, but i fear that its me... he says its not.
i just want him happy, no matter what that means.
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« Reply #5 on: May 17, 2012, 08:40:25 PM »
Does he have any health issues?

It can be caused by a lot of things, generally erectile dysfunction itself is a mechanical issue. But if he has psychological issues going on, like depression he could have psychological ED. If this is the first time it happened, try to think what might have been different, or if he's under more stress etc.

We are dealing with that (sort of) over here... not fun. And definitely hurts as a girl, I can say that. I do know how you feel.
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Caregiver to Husband with ESRD.

1995 - Diagnosed with vesicoureteral reflux and had surgery to repair at age 11. Post surgery left side still had Stage I VUR, right side was okay. Both sides were underdeveloped.
2005 - Discovered renal function was declining, causing HBP. Regular monitoring began.

March 2008 - Started transplant evaluation for preemptive transplant due to declining function.

September 16, 2008 - Transplanted with my kidney.
September 18, 2008 - Kidney was removed due to thrombosis in the vessels in and leading to the kidney.

October 2008 - Listed in Region I

May 2009 - Started in Center Hemo
January 2010 - Started CCPD on Liberty Cycler

June 15, 2012 - Kidney transplant from a 43 year old deceased donor
June 22, 2012 - Major acute rejection episode and hospitalization began
June 27, 2012 - Nephrectomy to remove kidney after complete HLA antibody rejection. Possibly not eligible for another transplant, ever again.

Now what?
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« Reply #6 on: June 02, 2012, 09:51:59 AM »
One thing is his age, and his family history. 

As a man gets older, he tends to lose or not produce as much testosterone.  Since I've gotten older, and have been on "D" for over two years, my levels have dropped drastically..and i was getting worried.  I was not able to "preform' as i had been able to the past few months. 

My doctor has started me on a regiment of different types of testosterone to see what works. . . creams, patches, oils, and now we have come to the conclusion after a year of trying, that I need a shot of testosterone, once every 2 weeks.  So far so good, levels have stayed even and not decreased.  Just like any medice, some work and some don't. 

Men, have a HUGE fear of ED, wether it is physical or mental issues causing it.  It is their MANHOOD that you are talking about . . .their pride!!!!!  Men in general don't want to talk about it espically with their partner, and surely not with a stranger or a doctor.  But, once you break them down and get them to face their fear and talk about it, they will see they aren't alone.  It is only a fact of life, people get older and bodies change!  But, God gave us doctors and medicines to help with those changes. 
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« Reply #7 on: June 02, 2012, 05:55:37 PM »
I have diabetes and am on heamo dialysis. I have ed. The urologist perscribed a supossitory pellet and a vacuum pump and now its good to go. Nuff said.
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