Lately, I've been struggling to balance everything and take time for myself. I've been working 8+ hour days and 6 on Saturdays. When I get home from work at 6, I have to cook dinner and do what I can with my son before he goes to bed at 8. After he's in bed, I have to wash dishes, fold laundry, do household chores. My son is at daycare all day, so his dad is home all day, doing God knows what. I know he's on dialysis (PD) but still, I feel like SOMETHING should get done around the house while he sits here childless. I want to exercise. I want to take better care of myself, but I'm freaking exhausted by the time the little guy goes to bed. The only reason I am up this late right now is because I got a 3 hour nap in today while the little guy was taking his nap. So how does everyone else balance things out? Do you expect more of the patient? I feel like sometimes I should be telling my SO he has to get things done because if he has the energy to work on his truck, go fishing or whatever he should have the energy to do the household stuff too, right? I really do feel like everything, and I do mean EVERYTHING is falling on my shoulders, and I am taking care of it, but at the same time I am not doing anything to take care of me, and I worry that is going to bite me in the bottom one of these days. Any suggestions on how to make me time, or balance everything better would be great, because I'm getting worn out quick.
Didn't think we would see all this so so early in our 39 yrs of marriage.