Hi & Welcome Pat! Yes, I too remember when my Husband was diagnosed 7 yrs ago. It was devastating! But as time goes on, in all the overwhelming aspects of this disease, we finally realized to accept it and enjoy the rest of our life together! Now I will confess, we just realized it recently, but hopefully, you can learn from us on IHD! IHD knows what, how & why any thing KIDNEYS!
Just sit back & read! If you can find your answer, then you ask away, cause someone will have an answer! Have your mom join IHD too! She would find it very informative.
Again Welcome & God Bless,
lmunchkin
P.S. Bless you for loving & Caring for your mother so much! She is Blessed to have an Angel like you.