I have just been told that in Australia, you must be already on D to be listed for a deceased (is that the acceptable term?) donor kidney and that you can be pre emptively txed only if you have a live donor. This made me feel horrible, that I am being selfish and am taking away something from someone and that I am "less than" because I have no living donor. But I guess it does not matter because I am in the US, and the guidelines I have to follow are the one established in this country. Still, I feel really awful. Maybe I should not accept a kidney until I have spent a couple of years on D...you know, until I have paid the price?
I am glade I went on dialysis, since I learned to appreciate life more.
I think the word which applies in Australia would be "needy" rather than "worthy", when it comes to transplants. Someone who is already on dialysis would NEED a transplant more than someone who still has some kidney function.I was astonished to find that there were non-donor pre-emptive transplants in US, when I started browsing through this forum. I thought I must be misunderstanding what I was reading.I still think I am living in right place for dealing with kidney faliure.
Quote from: MaryD on November 14, 2011, 07:11:55 PMI think the word which applies in Australia would be "needy" rather than "worthy", when it comes to transplants. Someone who is already on dialysis would NEED a transplant more than someone who still has some kidney function.I was astonished to find that there were non-donor pre-emptive transplants in US, when I started browsing through this forum. I thought I must be misunderstanding what I was reading.I still think I am living in right place for dealing with kidney faliure.Is it true, though, that someone on dialysis NEEDS a kidney more than someone with, say, an egfr of 10 and is really struggling? When I met our member, Desert Dancer, at the IHD meetup in Vegas, I knew that she was doing nocturnal home hemo, and she was certainly healthier than me! So, does she need a kidney more than I do? Who gets to decide this? Who gets to define "need" and then quantify it?
Oh, and never use the term "cadaveric" around anyone from the NKF if you do not want to get chastised! I was told years ago that it's insensitive. I thought it was a medical term. Silly me.