INTRODUCTION

[Stever]

 
Hi, my name is Steve from Coventry in the UK.
I am not actually on dialysis, but my wife is. She was diagnosed with "Small Kidneys" in May 2009 and has been successfully on dialysis since then. Yes, its a chore but a necessary one and we're both making the most of it and getting on with life almost as normal. I know I'm not the one on dialysis, but as far as I'm concerned, it's a team thing and we support each other.
Anyway, hi to you all and have a good day.

[willowtreewren]

 

Hi, Steve,

This site is just as much for care partners as it is for those on dialysis! So I hope you make yourself at home!

I like your attitude! Yes, dialysis is a chore and it takes up quite a bit of time! But that still leaves lots of hours for getting on with life! Not everyone does well on dialysis, though, so you can consider yourselves fortunate in that regard (and I realize I'm making an assumption there!)

There are many members here on IHD from your neck of the woods, too!

Once again,

welcome   


Aleta

[MooseMom]

There you are!  I saw your name the other day listed as our newest member, and I was hoping that you'd post an introduction.

As Aleta said, this site is for anyone that has some involvement with kidney disease or dialysis in any way.  We have members who aren't on dialysis yet but know they will be soon.  And like you, we have plenty of members who are spouses/partners/family members who are on dialysis and who just want to know more about the trials and tribulations of the process.

As glad as we are that you've decided to join, it would be great if your wife might like to join, also, so that we can more directly answer any questions she may have (and to let her know that she is by no means alone).  Please extend our invitation to her.

Anyway, glad you are here!

[Bajanne]

Welcome to our community, Steve!  Greetings from one born and living under the Union Jack (born in Barbados, living in the British Virgin Islands).  I am always gratified when people join IHD because of concern for  a loved one.  You have come to just the right place for information, support and encouragement!
I see you are from Coventry.  I was sent there once in my class at school    We had sent the Maths teacher to Coventry and that day for the first time there was something I could answer.  I was not going to give up my only chance to put my hand up in a Maths class. So then I got sent to Coventry!!  [I am sure that many do not understand what I am talking about!!]
Is your wife a computer person as well?   Maybe she can join us as well. Anyway, there is a section of our site that is particularly for caregivers and loved ones.  Check it out!
Looking forward to hearing more from you.




Bajanne, Moderator

[rsudock]

so thankful for wonderful partners and spouses that are out there to support us that live with ESRD. Thank you!!!

WELCOME!

xo,
R

[Ang]

 

[boswife]

Hi Steve and welcome from another 'partner'    Im so glad you found it here as it is such a wonderful family to have joined.  It makes ya feel just so normal        I love your attitude 

[Stever]

Welcome to our community, Steve!  Greetings from one born and living under the Union Jack (born in Barbados, living in the British Virgin Islands).  I am always gratified when people join IHD because of concern for  a loved one.  You have come to just the right place for information, support and encouragement!
I see you are from Coventry.  I was sent there once in my class at school    We had sent the Maths teacher to Coventry and that day for the first time there was something I could answer.  I was not going to give up my only chance to put my hand up in a Maths class. So then I got sent to Coventry!!  [I am sure that many do not understand what I am talking about!!]
Is your wife a computer person as well?   Maybe she can join us as well. Anyway, there is a section of our site that is particularly for caregivers and loved ones.  Check it out!
Looking forward to hearing more from you.




Bajanne, Moderator

[Stever]

Sorry, not used to your site yet.

Anyway, what I have been trying to say and not wishing to be boring, is just to explain to others who dont know about being sent to Coventry means. The saying comes from the English Civil War in the 1640s when Royalist prisoners were incarcerated in Coventry, which was then a walled city and difficult to escape from. Some, as legend has it, were allowed to roam the city, but the locals, who were Parliamentarians and were at war with the Royalists, were threatened with punishment if they  spoke to one of these prisoners. Hence the saying "Sent to Coventry" means that the person is ignored and no-one speaks to them.

I know its nothing to do with dialysis, but its just a bit of trivia that some may find interesting and good ammunition for any trivia quiz.

Thanks to you all for your kind and supportive welcome.

[Rerun]

Interesting History.  Welcome Steve and wife.  You have a great attitude and your wife is very lucky to have someone like you who will stick with her.  I'm glad you found us and I hope you find this site helpful.

Rerun, Moderator      

[cariad]

 

I lived in Coventry - we owned a flat there, husband bought it long before I met him. Do you know Whitley Court? The Royal Oak was his local. I do refer to Coventry as the Detroit of England, but I promise that was mostly for the car-manufacturing. Now that a certain automaker has left, most of the people we knew there have moved on.

Anyhow, Coventry does hold a special place in my heart. Welcome. I hope you and your wife find answers and support here. I look forward to getting to know you better.

[Bruno]

Welcome Steve and Steve's girl as well.