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Mizar
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« on: January 29, 2011, 07:55:23 PM »

 My Dear Husband Died Today. It was the most Peaceful Passing, He just took, Soft, Silent, Breaths, until the End.  I Prayed, that God, would let it end this way and He Answered, My Prayers. We had been Married, for over, Forty Years.  He was My Husband, My Lover and Friend. I will Miss Him.
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« Reply #1 on: January 29, 2011, 08:28:21 PM »


 No words yet for you Miss Jo-Ann,
just know that I'm here for you
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« Reply #2 on: January 29, 2011, 09:37:39 PM »
Beautifully  Said....    Your are lucky to have had that wonderful person in your life....   May you memories be everlasting......
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« Reply #3 on: January 29, 2011, 10:05:06 PM »
 :'( :'( :'(
Thanks for letting us know Jo Ann. Wow, 40 years, that's a lifetime together. I am glad his life ended peacefully and I hope you will be surrounded by love from family and friends.
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« Reply #4 on: January 29, 2011, 10:13:05 PM »
I am so sorry for your loss, I do hope you're :grouphug; :grouphug; surrounded by your family, and I hope you take a small comfort in knowing that you took wonderful care of him, you were his forever. I am glad it was gentle and peaceful, my heart breaks for the wrenching loss you must feel.
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« Reply #5 on: January 29, 2011, 10:27:59 PM »
 :grouphug;  Thinking of you and your family.   :grouphug;
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« Reply #6 on: January 29, 2011, 10:48:17 PM »
jo ann i feel for you. know that you have friends here who care.   :grouphug; :grouphug;
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« Reply #7 on: January 30, 2011, 02:53:04 AM »
I am very sorry for your loss, Mizar.
I can imagine how hard it is after all these years,
and I am thinking of you.  :grouphug;

Kind regards from Kristina.
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« Reply #8 on: January 30, 2011, 04:00:27 AM »
I am so sorry for your loss.
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« Reply #9 on: January 30, 2011, 04:18:34 AM »
My deepest sympathies to you and your family.  Please take care yourself.
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« Reply #10 on: January 30, 2011, 04:33:27 AM »
Mizar, I don't know what to say to ease your heart. I am so very sorry for your loss. Forty years is a life time with the same person. Think of the good memories that you both shared.I will be thinking of you and your family.
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« Reply #11 on: January 30, 2011, 04:46:45 AM »
Jo-Ann...

I'm terribly sorry to hear this.... May your darling husband rest in peace...

May God bless and protect you and your family.....

Thinking of, and praying for you.....

Love...

Darth....


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Don’t grieve for me, for now I’m free I’m following the path God has laid you see. I took His hand when I heard him call I turned my back and left it all.

I could not stay another day To laugh, to love, to work, to play. Tasks left undone must stay that way I found that peace at the close of day.

If my parting has left a void Then fill it with remembered joy. A friendship shared, a laugh, a kiss Oh yes, these things I too will miss.

Be not burdened with times of sorrow I wish you the sunshine of tomorrow. My life’s been full, I savored much Good friends, good times, a loved one’s touch.

Perhaps my time seemed all too brief Don’t lengthen it now with undue grief. Lift up your hearts and peace to thee God wanted me now; He set me free.
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« Reply #12 on: January 30, 2011, 05:45:53 AM »
JoAnn, I'm saddened by your loss but so glad that it ws a peaceful end to his journey. My heart goes out to you and you will be in my prayers.  :grouphug;
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« Reply #13 on: January 30, 2011, 06:09:17 AM »
Jo-Ann you are all in my prayers  :grouphug; :grouphug;
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« Reply #14 on: January 30, 2011, 06:12:43 AM »
  It's hard for me to even read your post, but God did answer and you can have peace with that.  Bless you and may God continue to keep you in his arms and protect your heart and give you strength. 
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« Reply #15 on: January 30, 2011, 06:17:28 AM »
oh JoAnn, I am so sorry. Thankfully God answered your prayers and your dear husband passed easily. But, it is never easy for those left behind. My deepest sympathy. I hope your good memories ease this time.
 :grouphug;
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JoAnn,

My heart and prayers go out to you.

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« Reply #16 on: January 30, 2011, 08:17:25 AM »
My deepest sympathy
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« Reply #17 on: January 30, 2011, 09:24:51 AM »
So sorry - take care of yourself.
 :grouphug;
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« Reply #18 on: January 30, 2011, 09:32:08 AM »
Jo, I'm so sorry and have been thinking of you these past few days.

 :grouphug;

Draw on the help of those who care for you.

 :grouphug;
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« Reply #19 on: January 30, 2011, 09:46:35 AM »
I am so very sorry for your loss.....  :'(

I am thankful that his passing was peaceful and I wish you and your loved ones comfort and peace ......
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« Reply #20 on: January 30, 2011, 10:05:49 AM »
 :grouphug; Thinking of you  :grouphug;
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« Reply #21 on: January 30, 2011, 01:34:09 PM »
My Sincire Sympathy
He will live for entrinty in "That House Not made With Hands' Amen
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« Reply #22 on: January 30, 2011, 02:17:43 PM »
Beautifully said - I am so glad he went in peace. One day you will be able to remember more the great times and less the ending.
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« Reply #23 on: January 30, 2011, 04:26:05 PM »
Jo Ann, I'm so sorry for your loss.  Yes, you will miss him.  May he be at peace and with God now.


       :pray;
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« Reply #24 on: January 30, 2011, 05:58:50 PM »
I am sorry for your loss 
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