His parents are normally very nice and I am pretty sure they don't mean any harm....they just need something to "talk" about. Normal "chat" for them is who in the neighborhood is dieing from cancer and who is having the triple bypass and who's spouse has passed away in he last month.
It's actually become a joke between my BF ad I. I joked....when my biopsy came back clean "I know your mom is gonna be disappointed and all."
And he did an quasi impersonation (of his parents) throwing his hands up yelling "WHY!!!!!....."
as if to say ..why does the kidney have to be doing so darn good???!!!