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MandaMe1986
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« on: August 26, 2009, 10:03:36 AM »
So my dad and step mom went to visit my brother in NJ.  And well he is getting admitted down there right now.  He got an infection in the line in his chest.  I am going crazy I can't be there.  I need to be there.  There hasn't been a time when I was in the hospital that my father hasn't been there for me. And now here we are and my dad is in the hospital and I can't be there!  I am worried, when I had my infection I got so sick.  ICU and the whole bit.  My dad has never been sick like that. I don't want him to have to ever..... My dad has been sick for 6 days, 6 days! And everyone just kinda looked the other way!  I know my father is a grown man, but still. We have already gone through this shit with me.  Everyone should know better.  I have told him what to look for the moment he got that thing put in.  I told him the second he got chills and a fever and what not to go in.  Some days I tell ya....grrr...

So yeah please pray for my hard headed father....
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Blessed are the poor in spirit, for theres is the kingdom of heaven.
Blessed are they who mourn, for they will be comforted.
Blessed are the meek, for they will inherit the land.
Blessed are they whohunger and thirst for righteousness, for theywill be satisfied.
Blessed are the merciful, for they will be shown mercy.
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« Reply #1 on: August 26, 2009, 10:14:53 AM »
Life is hard enough , thinking of you and hoping all turns out ok for your dad.  :cuddle; KS
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« Reply #2 on: August 26, 2009, 11:02:19 AM »
 :grouphug; :grouphug;

Manda, I'm thinking of you. Distance is hard.

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« Reply #3 on: August 26, 2009, 11:03:04 AM »
Parents can be very hard-headed (I plead quilty).  I know you want to be with him and I am sorry you can't be.  I will pray they get this under control quickly and he starts feeling better.  Love you Manda   :cuddle;
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« Reply #4 on: August 26, 2009, 11:33:48 AM »
Your father is in my thoughts and prayers.
I see where your coming from in wanting to be there with/ for him.
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« Reply #5 on: August 26, 2009, 11:39:24 AM »
 :pray;   for your father and your family
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« Reply #6 on: August 26, 2009, 11:43:49 AM »
 :pray;  you can't be there, but I am sure he knows you want to be... thinking about you and your family Manda
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« Reply #7 on: August 26, 2009, 11:52:28 AM »
Well I just found out the infection is in his blood already.  They are saying it is gonna take a couple days for meds to start kicking in...Thanks you guys.
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Blessed are the poor in spirit, for theres is the kingdom of heaven.
Blessed are they who mourn, for they will be comforted.
Blessed are the meek, for they will inherit the land.
Blessed are they whohunger and thirst for righteousness, for theywill be satisfied.
Blessed are the merciful, for they will be shown mercy.
Blessed are the clean of heart, for they will see God.
Blessed are the peacemakers, for they will be called children of God.

Matthew 5:3-9
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« Reply #8 on: August 26, 2009, 12:06:09 PM »
So sorry your Dad is having to cope with this and all the worse for being away from home.   :grouphug;
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« Reply #9 on: August 26, 2009, 12:07:34 PM »
You and your Father are in my thoughts today.  Keep us posted, Manda!   :cuddle;
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« Reply #10 on: August 26, 2009, 12:24:17 PM »
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Prayers going up for your father today.
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« Reply #11 on: August 26, 2009, 01:26:05 PM »
Just found out they are admitting him to ICU now.  His bp is 70/47 and he is having chest pain but can't give him anything for the pain.  I don't know what to do, sitting around the house is driving me crazy.
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Blessed are the poor in spirit, for theres is the kingdom of heaven.
Blessed are they who mourn, for they will be comforted.
Blessed are the meek, for they will inherit the land.
Blessed are they whohunger and thirst for righteousness, for theywill be satisfied.
Blessed are the merciful, for they will be shown mercy.
Blessed are the clean of heart, for they will see God.
Blessed are the peacemakers, for they will be called children of God.

Matthew 5:3-9
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« Reply #12 on: August 26, 2009, 01:38:40 PM »
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« Reply #13 on: August 27, 2009, 12:36:21 AM »
Prayers and good wishes from South Africa

I hope he sorts it out soon.
 
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« Reply #14 on: August 27, 2009, 05:10:32 AM »
 :cuddle; Hope things gt sorted out soon!!
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« Reply #15 on: August 27, 2009, 05:20:12 AM »
My prayers are with you and your father.  :cuddle;
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« Reply #16 on: August 27, 2009, 06:22:26 AM »
As an old fart myself, I know what you must be feeling. Like my wife tells me give it to God,there's nothing you can do about it but make yourself sick. You have to believe.
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« Reply #17 on: August 27, 2009, 09:34:40 AM »
Well update.  My father about 3 this morning started having a minor heart attack.  And is still going through it.  They think the infection is causing it.  They are running test after test on him. He is still up in ICU.  Everyone is telling me he is getting better.  Better my ass! He is having a freaking heart attack.  I don't' care how minor they tell me it is. It is a heart attack.  So I am hurt. I wish I was there.  But all I can do is pray.  Keep us all in your thoughts....thanks
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Blessed are the poor in spirit, for theres is the kingdom of heaven.
Blessed are they who mourn, for they will be comforted.
Blessed are the meek, for they will inherit the land.
Blessed are they whohunger and thirst for righteousness, for theywill be satisfied.
Blessed are the merciful, for they will be shown mercy.
Blessed are the clean of heart, for they will see God.
Blessed are the peacemakers, for they will be called children of God.

Matthew 5:3-9
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« Reply #18 on: August 27, 2009, 09:36:24 AM »
 :grouphug; :cuddle; :grouphug; :cuddle;
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« Reply #19 on: August 27, 2009, 09:41:57 AM »
Hoping for the best for your dad, Manda. So sorry this happened, and that you are so far apart.

Take care of yourself  :cuddle;
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« Reply #20 on: August 27, 2009, 10:58:52 AM »
Sorry to hear about you dad, Manda.   You are both in my prayers.  Hang in there.   
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« Reply #21 on: August 27, 2009, 03:10:52 PM »
 :pray; :pray; :pray; :pray; :grouphug;
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« Reply #22 on: August 27, 2009, 03:22:11 PM »
Praying for you and your family Manda.
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« Reply #23 on: August 28, 2009, 05:58:36 AM »
Thinking of you.....

I hope they can restore the bloodflow to his heart before it causes to much other damage......

Hang in there.
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