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« Reply #75 on: August 10, 2009, 07:32:58 AM »
You are in my thoughts today.  Lots of prayers for your  Dad and my love to all three of you.    :grouphug;    :grouphug;
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« Reply #76 on: August 10, 2009, 07:33:42 AM »
Lots of hugs to you Rose. My thoughts are with you and your dad.
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« Reply #77 on: August 10, 2009, 08:19:11 AM »
 :grouphug; Rose  :cuddle;
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« Reply #78 on: August 10, 2009, 08:29:22 AM »
 :cuddle; Hi Rose - I am pacing with you.
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« Reply #79 on: August 10, 2009, 08:48:47 AM »
Morning Rose, just wanted to send :cuddle; :cuddle;
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« Reply #80 on: August 10, 2009, 10:28:22 AM »
...thinking of you, Rose...and waiting to hear...waiting....waiting...waiting... worried about Rose and Dad and Mum...thinking of you, Rose
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« Reply #81 on: August 10, 2009, 10:38:57 AM »
Quote from: Darthvadar on August 10, 2009, 05:31:14 AM
It's likely to be a long wait, I'm afraid, Rose...

Amputations for reasons of infection or gangerene are regarded as 'Dirty Procedures' (dreadful expression!), and the Operating Theatre cannot be used again until it has been deep cleaned... For that reason, unless it's a dire emergency, they usually get the rest of the theatre list done, and leave such procedures as your dad's until last...

Please know that I am thinking of, and praying for you, your mum and siblings, and of course,  your dad...

May God bless and protect you all...

Love...

Darth...

Thanks Darth, that explains a lot.........(thanks for your PM too xx)

Dad's op was postponed this afternoon, there were too many emergencies and we are waiting for a new date, possibly Wednesday.  Our troops are often brought back to Selly Oak where Dad is and of course if he is being left until last then it may be a bit longer before he is 'done'.  I hope it won't be too long as he is in such pain.

Thanks all for your love, good wishes, thoughts  and prayers which mean such a lot.

Bless you all
Rose xx
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« Reply #82 on: August 10, 2009, 11:09:03 AM »
Oh, Rose,
Waiting is the worst. Thinking of you and your family.

 :grouphug; :grouphug;

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« Reply #83 on: August 10, 2009, 11:58:12 AM »
Rose,

You're more than welcome to the PM... Isn't that what friends are for???...

I'm SO very sorry to hear about your dad's op being cancelled... The poor man, and the poor family...

This is SO unfair... And of course, the longer he's waiting, the more he suffers...

Please know that I'm thinking of you all...

May God bless and protect you all...

Darth...
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« Reply #84 on: August 10, 2009, 11:21:48 PM »

Oh no!!  I was hoping he wouldn't get postponed - poor guy -- I am so sorry Rose. xoxoxox  :grouphug;
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Jenna is our daughter, bad bladder damaged her kidneys.
Was on in-center hemodialysis 2003-2007.
7 yr transplant lost due to rejection.
She did PD Sept. 2013 - July 2017
Found a swap living donor using social media, friends, family.
New kidney in a paired donation swap July 26, 2017.
Her story ---> https://www.facebook.com/WantedKidneyDonor
Please watch her video: http://youtu.be/D9ZuVJ_s80Y
Living Donors Rock! http://www.livingdonorsonline.org -
News video: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J-7KvgQDWpU
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« Reply #85 on: August 10, 2009, 11:38:52 PM »
Oh Rose I am so sorry the operation has been postponed, if only they knew what they put you through all the worrying. Please let the hospital operate on Wednesday without another delay, I really do feel for you and Mum and Dad. Love to you 3
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« Reply #86 on: August 11, 2009, 01:27:51 PM »
We have just heard from the hospital that they plan to operate tomorrow afternoon (Wednesday 12th) it would have been my 31st wedding anniversary, I hope that is a good omen. I hope it goes ahead this time and I hope the outcome is good. Please say a prayer/wish Dad luck/think positive thoughts  again if you can.  Thanks very much everyone. I hope to be posting good news this time tomorrow.xx
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« Reply #87 on: August 11, 2009, 01:28:59 PM »
 :grouphug; Thanks Rose - hope things get worked out.
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Jenna is our daughter, bad bladder damaged her kidneys.
Was on in-center hemodialysis 2003-2007.
7 yr transplant lost due to rejection.
She did PD Sept. 2013 - July 2017
Found a swap living donor using social media, friends, family.
New kidney in a paired donation swap July 26, 2017.
Her story ---> https://www.facebook.com/WantedKidneyDonor
Please watch her video: http://youtu.be/D9ZuVJ_s80Y
Living Donors Rock! http://www.livingdonorsonline.org -
News video: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J-7KvgQDWpU
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« Reply #88 on: August 11, 2009, 01:34:32 PM »
Please God it finally goes ahead tomorrow, Rose...

I'm looking forward to hearing good news...

May God bless and protect you all...

Darth...
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« Reply #89 on: August 11, 2009, 01:36:28 PM »
Hoping all turns out well tomorrow, Rose.   :grouphug;
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« Reply #90 on: September 02, 2009, 08:16:14 AM »
I've been thinking of you, Rose, and praying all is well.  Pop in and update us when you're up to it.   :grouphug;
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« Reply #91 on: September 02, 2009, 08:33:50 AM »
Hi Inara...

Very sadly, Roses dad died on August 14th... RIP... Here is a link to the tribute tread to the late Bill...

http://ihatedialysis.com/forum/index.php?topic=15272.0

May his gentle soul rest in peace...

God bless....

Darth....
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« Reply #92 on: September 02, 2009, 10:05:00 AM »
Thank you so much, Darth.  I don't know how in the world I missed that....I check the boards every day.  Anyway, I appreciate it and left my condolences on the appropriate thread.
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« Reply #93 on: September 02, 2009, 11:49:41 AM »
You can't think of everything, Inara...

I regularly miss important things, too...

God bless....

Darth...
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