hmmm, it's really simple. If you created the room Angie you needed to send Sandmansa a "Invite" that way he would have went right to your game table.
See, the problem is, you both have to make it into the exact same room for someone to invite you to a game. That simply can not happen if for some reason, one was able to join a room and had no clue how they they got there or what room it was, and that the room the first one got into, was full of other people. Yahoo games was just to annoying to try again.