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« Reply #25 on: February 28, 2009, 08:46:22 PM »
Glitter this is such a shock!  I am so very sorry for you and your girls.  Please come here when you need to talk and need a hug.  I know he is free from dialysis and in a better place, but I'm sure you would rather have him here with you.  I'm so sorry....

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« Reply #26 on: February 28, 2009, 08:58:36 PM »
Glitter *tight hugs sent* I am so sorry!! You did not even have a chance to say goodbye :( that is so horribly sad.. the only thing I can offer at this point is that it seems he didn't suffer for long which is a blessing in the long run. I worry now for you and your kids.. so soon.. so sad... please take care and know you can vent here when you need to. My thoughts are with you RIP hubby.

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3/1993: Diagnosed with Kidney Failure (FSGS)
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« Reply #27 on: February 28, 2009, 09:01:15 PM »
I am so sorry, Glitter.
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« Reply #28 on: February 28, 2009, 09:20:07 PM »
I am so sorry Glitter.  My heart is breaking for you and your kids.  Way, way too young.  Love to all of you. xxx
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« Reply #29 on: February 28, 2009, 09:35:23 PM »
Glitter, I am sorry for your loss. May God Bless you an your family and may he give you the strength to get through this.  Your IHD friends are always here to listen
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« Reply #30 on: February 28, 2009, 09:49:07 PM »
My heart breaks for your loss. There are no words to express my deepest heart felt wishes for you and your girls in your time of sorrow.  :grouphug; :grouphug; :grouphug;
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« Reply #31 on: February 28, 2009, 09:58:42 PM »
Glitter, we are so sorry for what you and your daughters are going through. Our prayers are with you.
 :grouphug;
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« Reply #32 on: February 28, 2009, 10:02:29 PM »
Glitter, I am so sorry for your loss  :grouphug;
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« Reply #33 on: February 28, 2009, 10:36:23 PM »
Sorry to hear of the terrible news glitter
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« Reply #34 on: March 01, 2009, 02:30:49 AM »
I am so sorry to hear this sad news, Glitter. I am so glad, though, that you guys had the habit of expressing how you felt.  Just hug your wonderful memories of him.  My caring thoughts and prayers are with you and your kids as you go through this very difficult time. :grouphug;
Please know that your IHD family is with you, holding your hand all the way.
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« Reply #35 on: March 01, 2009, 06:19:17 AM »
I am so sorry for your terrible loss. I will keep you and your kids in my prayers.
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« Reply #36 on: March 01, 2009, 06:50:12 AM »
Glitter I am so very sorry :grouphug; :grouphug; :grouphug;
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« Reply #37 on: March 01, 2009, 08:14:24 AM »
words fail glitter I'm thinking of you today 
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« Reply #38 on: March 01, 2009, 11:51:29 AM »
Oh Glitter, I am so sorry.  :grouphug;
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« Reply #39 on: March 01, 2009, 03:10:38 PM »
Hold tight to your memories and love. Know that we're all crying for your loss.
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« Reply #40 on: March 01, 2009, 03:28:01 PM »
Most Kind and Gentle Mother,

help me to understand the passing
of our loved ones on to a new life
with our beloved friends and family
who have gone before....

I am so sorry

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« Reply #41 on: March 01, 2009, 09:46:38 PM »
Glitter,
no words can express the pain you feel now, but let me hug you and your kids in all my prayers and your husband's soul to rest eternally in peace.
we love you..... :cuddle; :cuddle; :cuddle; :grouphug; :grouphug; :grouphug;
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« Reply #42 on: March 01, 2009, 11:31:56 PM »
 :grouphug; I am so sorry for your loss  :grouphug;  Yvonne
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« Reply #43 on: March 02, 2009, 01:50:12 PM »
Words cannot express my sympathy, tears cannot wash away the pain, time can only dull the ache, may God grant you solace..... Melinoir  :'(  :grouphug;
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« Reply #44 on: March 02, 2009, 05:01:49 PM »
OMG!!!! I totally missed this thread!! Oh Glitter, I am so sorry to hear about your husband! I know how much you loved him. Please accept my sincerest condolences, love and hugs.

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« Reply #45 on: March 02, 2009, 06:20:37 PM »
Thankyou- I will miss him so.  :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'(
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« Reply #46 on: March 02, 2009, 09:39:15 PM »

So sad glitter. I know he would have stayed with you if he could.
What are the plans for a service? Is your family nearby?
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« Reply #47 on: March 03, 2009, 06:38:56 AM »
We both had some family here- more is driving in, even though I stayed home and ran our business, my husband was out there in the community for years working, so a lot of the people I notified, that thought the world of him, and are coming to his service- have never met me in person. His primary care doc is shutting his office down and they are all coming, and I am pretty sure his neph will be there as well. He would be so proud. Its Thursday at 2 pm. We lived such a private life- the girls are both overwhelmed by how many people are calling and responding, (as am I) he was just such a happy guy.  :'(  I am so lucky I had him for as long as I did.
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« Reply #48 on: March 03, 2009, 06:41:44 AM »
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« Reply #49 on: March 03, 2009, 06:49:39 AM »
glitter, I'm thinking about you and the girls.  :cuddle;
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