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2_DallasCowboys
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« on: January 07, 2009, 01:44:23 PM »
this story is coming up on
CBS news, channel 2 in my area.

Just heard the preview- husband gave
wife a kidney, now they are divorcing, and
he wants the organ back!!!

Didn't hear the full report yet, but I am
waiting for the news to come on

This sounds like a first to me!

Anne
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« Reply #1 on: January 07, 2009, 01:46:15 PM »
Get his address...this calls for more than
the big stick!!  I am having a real hard time
withholding the expletives that are running
through my mind....LOUDLY!
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« Reply #2 on: January 07, 2009, 01:50:51 PM »

here's the story http://ihatedialysis.com/forum/index.php?topic=11865.0
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Jenna is our daughter, bad bladder damaged her kidneys.
Was on in-center hemodialysis 2003-2007.
7 yr transplant lost due to rejection.
She did PD Sept. 2013 - July 2017
Found a swap living donor using social media, friends, family.
New kidney in a paired donation swap July 26, 2017.
Her story ---> https://www.facebook.com/WantedKidneyDonor
Please watch her video: http://youtu.be/D9ZuVJ_s80Y
Living Donors Rock! http://www.livingdonorsonline.org -
News video: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J-7KvgQDWpU
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« Reply #3 on: January 07, 2009, 02:04:46 PM »
 :Kit n Stik; What an ass.  :sir ken;
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« Reply #4 on: January 07, 2009, 02:17:22 PM »
and he is a doctor?    :rofl;    what a doorknob!!!
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« Reply #5 on: January 07, 2009, 02:33:30 PM »
Kathy, Wenchie, Glitter =

Gotta luv you guys, too much!

Carol, thanks for putting up the story -
I am still waiting for it to come up on  the news!

Anne
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« Reply #6 on: January 07, 2009, 02:36:05 PM »
I have said for YEARS that if my husband at the time 22 years ago was allowed to give me a kidney he would have wanted it back when we divorces 8 years later.  This is not a first!  I thought of it long ago.  Back then it was only "living Related".  No spouses or friends let alone a stranger.  Things do change folks.

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« Reply #7 on: January 07, 2009, 02:55:22 PM »
Well doesn't he look classy in front of the entire world.  Pathetic dweeb.  My advice to her is a simple slogan..."Just say NO".
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« Reply #8 on: January 07, 2009, 03:10:34 PM »
Maybe in the divorce settlement, she gets the kidney and he gets the urine.

8)
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« Reply #9 on: January 07, 2009, 03:13:27 PM »


Can she give back her stretchmarks from childbirth too?  :sir ken;
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Jenna is our daughter, bad bladder damaged her kidneys.
Was on in-center hemodialysis 2003-2007.
7 yr transplant lost due to rejection.
She did PD Sept. 2013 - July 2017
Found a swap living donor using social media, friends, family.
New kidney in a paired donation swap July 26, 2017.
Her story ---> https://www.facebook.com/WantedKidneyDonor
Please watch her video: http://youtu.be/D9ZuVJ_s80Y
Living Donors Rock! http://www.livingdonorsonline.org -
News video: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J-7KvgQDWpU
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« Reply #10 on: January 07, 2009, 03:14:46 PM »
Quote from: Zach on January 07, 2009, 03:10:34 PM
Maybe in the divorce settlement, she gets the kidney and he gets the urine.

8)

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« Reply #11 on: January 08, 2009, 07:27:51 AM »
Tell him he can have it back after they remove his first.  Oops she never showed up for the surgery...oh darn know what will he do.    :rofl;
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« Reply #12 on: January 08, 2009, 07:32:49 AM »
 :rofl; :rofl; :rofl; :clap; :clap; :clap; :rofl; :rofl; :rofl;



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« Reply #13 on: January 08, 2009, 08:22:38 AM »
He gave her the gift of life.
She started an affair with her trainer who she wouldnt have without the kidney.
He gave her a REAL life again.  She decided she didnt want him anymore.

Im not making an excuse for him.
But i would be pretty pissed off myself.
No i would never ask for the kidney back.  But it would haunt me the rest of my life.
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« Reply #14 on: January 08, 2009, 08:25:59 AM »

Yes I would not diminish his "gift" - but it is naive for someone to donate and not accept that it's non-refundable.
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Jenna is our daughter, bad bladder damaged her kidneys.
Was on in-center hemodialysis 2003-2007.
7 yr transplant lost due to rejection.
She did PD Sept. 2013 - July 2017
Found a swap living donor using social media, friends, family.
New kidney in a paired donation swap July 26, 2017.
Her story ---> https://www.facebook.com/WantedKidneyDonor
Please watch her video: http://youtu.be/D9ZuVJ_s80Y
Living Donors Rock! http://www.livingdonorsonline.org -
News video: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J-7KvgQDWpU
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« Reply #15 on: January 08, 2009, 08:27:14 AM »
agreed
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« Reply #16 on: January 08, 2009, 08:47:28 AM »
Its a real shame this has had to happen, I understand him being bitter, but in the public eye... he is making a fool of himself
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« Reply #17 on: January 08, 2009, 08:58:35 AM »
Love turns to hate.

Doctor with no compassion.  They have 3 children together.  Maybe because I am single therefore, I do not understand the complexity of a marriage.
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