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Okay well unfortunately things between the guy i was seeing went south. I just think things were rushed and I got scared and pushed him away... well I get a text from Brad the guy who I had kind of been with before, and we get to talking and well I think my feelings for him never really went away he dropped a bomb on me... he told me he loved me and that he haS for a long time! Now I am sitting here very shocked and confused! I am not sure if he was telling me the truth or just lonely or what! I do have feelings for him as well but im not sure if I love him, thats pretty intense. I have had some odd nights but this one takes the cake!  |
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« Reply #1 on: December 30, 2008, 04:47:30 AM » |
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Maybe it is true love  |
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« Reply #2 on: December 30, 2008, 05:01:52 AM » |
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Karen, Slow down. That's quite a bit to happen in a short span. Don't be in a hurry. Remember there is a difference between lust and love.  |
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« Reply #3 on: December 30, 2008, 05:02:32 AM » |
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go slow ...Boxman
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« Reply #4 on: December 30, 2008, 05:05:43 AM » |
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Karen
be careful of your heart
if Brad loves you, he will still love you if you take it slowly
how long did you know him and how close were you
how long ago has it been
just be careful
it is too easy to hurt someone or get hurt yourself
did Brad know you were involved with someone else
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karen547
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« Reply #5 on: December 30, 2008, 06:17:41 AM » |
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I am just really confused as to how I am feeling! I never really got over Brad, but things just never seemed to pan out with him and I , and Todd well I will be talking to him later today so I guess we will see later.. I just wish I had a crystal ball right now.
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« Reply #6 on: December 30, 2008, 06:28:06 AM » |
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Twirl asked a valid point.
Did brad realize you were seeing someone else??
If so it could just be a case of jealousy on his part. Oh trust me i know im a guy, and we dont like to see our ex's with another man. Wouldnt be the first time a guy or gal intervined just to break up a relationship for his or hers own ego trip.
So play it slow. The heart is easy to break.
Best of luck to you.
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« Reply #7 on: December 30, 2008, 06:51:55 AM » |
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A crystal ball would be great, but we might not really want to see what is ahead for us. It is the holidays, lots of loneliness and open emotions during this season. Breath deep and take it slow. Good luck - you'll make a good choice.
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« Reply #8 on: December 30, 2008, 08:07:14 AM » |
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At least you have a little ego boost when you go to talk to Todd. Otherwise you may get back together with Todd for the wrong reason.... like being lonely on New Year's Eve. It is nice to know you have plan B. Take control of your life and put these boys to good use.  |
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karen547
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« Reply #9 on: December 30, 2008, 11:09:32 AM » |
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My father seems to think Todd will come crawling back lol and he says to just take things as they come
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« Reply #10 on: December 30, 2008, 02:32:36 PM » |
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I'm not doing anything for New Years and I own an adjustable crystal ball. Also I am probably close to your Dad's age so I should get along great with him. So far so good hey!...Boxman
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« Reply #11 on: December 30, 2008, 02:35:23 PM » |
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Slow is always best.
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« Reply #12 on: December 31, 2008, 04:39:38 AM » |
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« Reply #13 on: December 31, 2008, 02:11:05 PM » |
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At least you have a little ego boost when you go to talk to Todd. Otherwise you may get back together with Todd for the wrong reason.... like being lonely on New Year's Eve. It is nice to know you have plan B.
Take control of your life and put these boys to good use.
Hey! Rerun we are not just toys!!! Karen don't be in a rush... it will sort out in the end.  |
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« Reply #14 on: December 31, 2008, 02:25:13 PM » |
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Two guys vying for your attention is fun  . Time is on your side. Enjoy. |
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« Reply #15 on: December 31, 2008, 02:40:02 PM » |
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You are young darling so safety in numbers. Keep you options open and enjoy yourself. The one who is right for you will come forward but don't rush it. xx
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