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« Reply #25 on: June 19, 2008, 08:13:21 PM »

Gads, I cry over things that seem so insignificant relative to what you have to deal with.  I hope that tomorrow will seem a little brighter for some unexpected reason.  I'll be holding you in my thoughts.
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As for me, I'll borrow this thought: "Having never experienced kidney disease, I had no idea how crucial kidney function is to the rest of the body." - KD
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« Reply #26 on: June 19, 2008, 08:18:32 PM »

Kitkatz, people can be so insensitive without meaning to be and their ignorance or naivete or whatever it is doesn't make it any easier for us.  I've had this experience around the issue of not having kids and sometimes I used to say very softly  "Yes it is a great source of pain and your questions at this moment aren't making it any easier.  I know you don't MEAN to make it harder but please know that you are."  That usually produced some embarrassment but oh well...

Then again, you could just let em have it. :Kit n Stik; :Kit n Stik;

Take care sweet Kit and don't let the ignorant get to you.
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Pyelonephritis (began at 8 mos old)
Home haemo 1980-1985 (self-cannulated with 15 gauge sharps)
Cadaveric transplant 1985
New upper-arm fistula April 2008
Uldall-Cook catheter inserted May 2008
Haemo-dialysis, self care unit June 2008
(2 1/2 hours X 5 weekly)
Self-cannulated, 15 gauge blunts, buttonholes.
Living donor transplant (sister-in law Kathy) Feb. 2009
First failed kidney transplant removed Apr.  2009
Second trx doing great so far...all lab values in normal ranges
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Sunny

« Reply #27 on: June 19, 2008, 08:29:03 PM »

I know it can be so frustrating dealing with people who don't have a clue about all the issues involving kidney disease or getting a transplant.
People are ignorant about what we have to deal with. Try not to let it get to you. They are owed no explanation from you and they obviously
don't know you very well or they wouldn't need to ask. Hang in there.
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Sunny, 49 year old female
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« Reply #28 on: June 19, 2008, 08:45:50 PM »

 :grouphug;
"too young to be this sick. . "  - doesn't that just make you cringe?  Hello, I'm getting older by the minute, and it's not making being sick any better!
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"Asbestos Gelos"  (As-bes-tos yay-lohs) Greek. Literally, "fireproof laughter".  A term used by Homer for invincible laughter in the face of death and mortality.

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« Reply #29 on: July 03, 2008, 11:46:45 AM »

 :waving; kitkatz,

 :grouphug; :grouphug;  :grouphug;

Love,
MRR
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Kidneys damaged by hypertension/scleroderma 1987
In-center Hemodialysis:  May 2007 - October 2007
Switched to Manual PD October '07 - January '08
Switched to PD Nighttime Cycler January '08
Kidney transplant from living related donor June 2008
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