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« on: May 18, 2007, 12:39:22 PM »


Ex-Wife Donates Kidney


Last Update: May 17, 2007 3:40 PM


A Kentucky man who needed a kidney transplant turned to an unlikely source for a donor...his ex-wife.

Charlie and Denaa Rudd say they are better friends than they ever were husband and wife.

Recently, the bonds of friendship were tested.

"We spent a lot of years without talking," says Denaa.

Six to be exact, and by the time the two reconnected, Charlie was having some very serious health problems.

"I really thought I was going to die on dialysis."

Charlie needed a kidney, so Denaa says she offered hers.

"When we were married I always told him I'd donate him a kidney. Of course, four, five six years and two months ago, I would have said no."

Charlie says he was taken back by her kindness.

"I was absolutely shocked. That's a big step for someone to do that. She's a very loving and caring person."

"All my family tells me I have more heart than common sense," says Denaa.

So with that big heart, and matching kidney, the ex-spouses set off to a Nashville hospital on April 26th where doctors performed a successful organ transplant operation.

Charlie says there is no way to repay her kindness.

"I don't know what I can do to show my gratitude. There's not enough thank-yous out there. There's not a gift that I could buy for her. She already gave me the greatest gift of all and that's the gift of life."

Denaa says just because gave her ex the ultimate gift doesn't mean they're getting back together, "Everybody says that and the answer is no, no!."

The two are happy just being friends.

So in the end, man may have lost woman, but Charlie says he gained something far more important.

"We got a bond now that will never be broken. Never."

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Jenna is our daughter, bad bladder damaged her kidneys.
Was on in-center hemodialysis 2003-2007.
7 yr transplant lost due to rejection.
She did PD Sept. 2013 - July 2017
Found a swap living donor using social media, friends, family.
New kidney in a paired donation swap July 26, 2017.
Her story ---> https://www.facebook.com/WantedKidneyDonor
Please watch her video: http://youtu.be/D9ZuVJ_s80Y
Living Donors Rock! http://www.livingdonorsonline.org -
News video: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J-7KvgQDWpU
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« Reply #1 on: May 18, 2007, 02:03:04 PM »

What a touching story and very inspiring.  How many women would be willing to give their exes such a gift?   Of course i would need to take into consideration WHY we had broken up in the first place, had he cheated on me, i would never give him one of my organs but you best believe he'd be missing one of his  :o  if ya know what i mean ;) ;) 
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....and i think to myself, what a wonderful world....

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