Hi kristina,
I am sorry to hear that you are trapped in a lifestyle of debilitating pain that seems to be linked to nerve damage from the operation. In regard to your tests, I don't think all transplant patients have to be explicitly worried about it if they had antibodies for it ahead of transplant. (Someone will correct me if I am wrong, I am sure.) These sorts of things are checked in the preliminary testing days. Since I had no antibodies to it ahead of transplant, I was followed all this time, with regular interval blood work. Only now to find out that I am not followed...
But, anyway, I asked my local renal team to add it on to my regular blood work, and they are fine with that.
In regard to the "special military operation", my husband and I have opened up our home to a Ukrainian mother with small kids that fled. It is a tough position for my husband but at least his humanity is greater than his patriotism. I won't say too much, but this takes up a lot of my time these days.
Anyway, don't want to turn this into a military thread, but rather just Epstein-Barr silliness.