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CherylD
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« on: December 11, 2013, 10:31:11 AM »

Hi all! Great to find this forum. I've been on dialysis for 7 years. Hemo in center, pd at home and now home Hemo. Having trouble sticking myself, buttonholes are established but I can't seem to get blunt needles to work all the time. I was working full time up until about 6 weeks ago. Now I'm waiting for disability to kick in and am also going through a divorce. I filed last month. Got so much going... Have nearly zero support from family and friends. Dialysis nurse and social worker have been awesome! I got served a notice for eviction because I haven't been able to pay all my rent to date. I'm just feeling kinda hopeless. I'm trying not to let my kids see my worry but it's really difficult. Anyone been able to hurry the disability along??
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« Reply #1 on: December 11, 2013, 01:44:06 PM »

Disability checks often take a lot of time.  If your social worker is worth his/her salt, ask about your rent situation, get a recommendation for action.  You may be able to get an injunction - unless you have realistic alternatives.  I assume you have addressed this with the people who own the place.
If you are in California, you may be eligible for emergency money (GA Program)
As for those blunt needles, I don't know much about that.  I cry when I get a flu shot.
When friends found out that I had cancer, I joked with them.  Very funny.  Then I wiggled my fingers as if I was sprinkling them with cancer.  Unbelievably two of them brushed off their shirts.  Abandonment, sorry to say, comes with the territory.
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Once upon a time I got sick.  I got cancer, cancer, cancer, and cancer.  Then I had renal failure, dialysis, chronic bronchitis, pulmonary embolism, gall bladder attack, macular degeneration, and a whole bunch of stuff.  I'll show you my scars if you show me yours.

I am not on dialysis any longer.  I am one of the lucky ones to have survived that ordeal. So I left the forum thinking only those who are on dialysis should speak out.  However, the Head-Mama invited me back. I will discuss anything you wish.  You should expect some corny jokes from me along the way.

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« Reply #2 on: December 11, 2013, 05:14:51 PM »

Hi CheryID, and welcome to IHD.  I'm so glad you found us.  It is hard to push disability along.   Six months is what they say.  They want to make sure you are either really sick or dead.  But once that comes through at least it is some money every month. 

Divorce.... yes been there.  Sorry you have to go through all this at once.

Rerun, Moderator   :welcomesign;
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« Reply #3 on: December 12, 2013, 04:35:56 PM »

Hi Cheryl and :welcomesign; ...

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« Reply #4 on: December 15, 2013, 01:41:23 PM »

It's great that you joined the site and I hope that we can be helpful in some way.  You are going through so much at one time but you must be so strong to get through the past 8 years.  Please stay in touch.    :angel;
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