Congratulations, Ruth!
It sounds like you have things pretty well covered. You might want to pull out some clothes that are loose and comfy for the first few weeks after your TX. Carl found that most of his underwear pulled on the staples. That was the worst of the discomfort he experienced. A bed wedge might be a good thing to have, too. It is more comfortable to sleep in a slightly raised position.
Friends arranged to have meals delivered, but Carl did not have a huge appetite after getting out of the hospital, so we asked that they stop doing that pretty soon. With teenagers, you'll be covered with meals hopefully!
Give that brother of yours an extra hug from me! What a loving thing he is doing!
These things pass fairly soon, though.
I'm so pleased for you! The time will fly past.