I am heartbroken. We finally went for the intake appointment at the transplant center. My husband couldn't be evaluated at our home hospital because he's had some liver damage as a result of Hepatitis C (from a transfusion in '81, cured since 2002).
They weren't able to get any blood last week because he's had his arms all carved up trying to make a fistula (another @#%@#% story) ... so I called today to tell them the nephrologist here had okayed using the chest catheter as long as a dialysis tech or nurse did the blood draw.
Long pause .... "oh, he won't need any blood work." Silence. I thought WTH? and then it dawned on me. "He doesn't qualify?"
No, he doesn't qualify. He has some liver issues, but not enough to qualify him for a transplant. Because of all the drugs after, they feel like his liver wouldn't withstand the meds and would fail after kidney surgery.
This is the first time he hasn't been sick ENOUGH for something. And it kills me. He's been so happy since we came back from the transplant clinic last week.
Has anyone experienced this? Is there any point in trying to get a complete liver workup? He's never had a liver biopsy or any of that. Maybe it's not so bad?
Did I say I was heartbroken? OMG. So, so sad