dont hire family members

when i had my heartvalve replacement 6yrs ago
i had my mom help me and this program called rco its sorta like senior services
paid for her time and then she couldnt help anymore for she was working 40hours a week and helping with my grandkids and so forth
so my older sister took over and all i got from her was naging and complaining
she would go through my cubboards and litlery throw things out without me even knowing
which she had no right to do in the first place and it pist me off
i had a bag of potatoes under the sink and i noticed they were gone she took them to my moms and she said well you cant eat them
well duh i know that but i was using those for foodboxes for people
so yea she brought them back
there is alot more about my older sister
but i ended up firing her for i wasent going to deal with her bitching and complaining, nor did i need to have high bloodpressure do to her
she was wayyyy pist when she found out that i hired my bestfriend but i would had rather have her than my older sister any day

there was a time when my daughter and grandkids were moving
and my mom and i went to the aireprt to see them off
and i came home and went back to bed
my sister called a number of times and even bang on my door who know how many times
untill i finally got up and all i heard out of her mouth was yelling and im sure the neighbors heard
and she was wondering why i didnt answer the phone or the door and i look at her and i said dont u belive in sleeping
all i heard from that was yelling she never did calm down

and the other day i went in to check out the cardac rehab program
and i called and said something about having to work out the time when i could do it
she pointly came out and said well if you want to die go ahead and die
and i said geeze why are you being so negative and she turned around the next day totally denied saying what she said and stated i was lying
why would i lye on what she plainly came out and said
all i have been hearing the last week or so is bitching. i dont need that... i try and avoid her much as possible
my own daughter and grandkids dont care to be around her..

my older sister is my son caregiver so i really dont know how hes dealing with her
he doesnt speak his mind much unless it really gets to him
and he has told me one time what was bothering him and it had to do with my mom
he finally found the nerve to speak up to her and he spoke his mind.. which was good
now im waiting to see if he will do anything about my older sister.