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« on: November 29, 2010, 02:37:57 PM »
My mom died on november 20th dad and I were both with her when she took her final breath the hospice she was at was a blessing everyone truly cares I miss her so much but can still feel her around me
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« Reply #1 on: November 29, 2010, 02:40:19 PM »
Oh Karen, I'm so sorry to hear that....

May your mum rest in peace....

Thinking of, and praying for you...

Love...

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« Reply #2 on: November 29, 2010, 03:14:08 PM »
oh sweetheart..Im so sorry for your loss..I think its a big blessing that you got to be with her during her transiston.. Thats my big regret with my mom. I wish i had been there (i lost my mom sept of this year).  Im so glad you did the hospice as well.  WE were just about to bring them in when she passed.  I send you hugs for comfort and prayers for healing..  Hope your doing ok..    :cuddle;
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« Reply #3 on: November 29, 2010, 03:28:17 PM »
Karen, I'm so sorry for your loss.   Your mom shared her life and her passing with you and that is a very special thing.  My prayers will be with you and your family.   :grouphug;
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« Reply #4 on: November 29, 2010, 03:51:29 PM »

Karen, I am sorry to hear your mom is gone, and am sending you hugs and deepest sympathy.  :grouphug;
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« Reply #5 on: November 29, 2010, 04:14:01 PM »
Karen, I'm so sorry your mom is gone from earth.  She is in your heart forever.  Please know your are not alone.  I know how you miss her.  I miss my Mom too and she has been gone for a long time.  I hope to meet here again one day.

              :grouphug;
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« Reply #6 on: November 29, 2010, 04:54:53 PM »

 That's a real Hard one to deal with. Hugs and Prayers, to You.
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« Reply #7 on: November 29, 2010, 04:59:11 PM »
Thinking of you  :grouphug;
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« Reply #8 on: November 29, 2010, 05:06:22 PM »
Sorry to hear Karen, R.I.P. to your mother.
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« Reply #9 on: November 29, 2010, 05:08:30 PM »
Karen, I feel for you in your sorrow.
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« Reply #10 on: November 29, 2010, 05:16:13 PM »
I'm so very sorry to hear this.  Losing a mother is so hard.   I wish I could give you a hug.   :cuddle;
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« Reply #11 on: November 29, 2010, 05:34:11 PM »
So sorry you're dealing with this tough loss Karen.   :grouphug;
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« Reply #12 on: November 29, 2010, 05:58:46 PM »
 :cuddle; to you. Cherish the beautiful memories you have. You will always miss her. My mom will be gone 3 years in December and I still miss her and I know I always will.
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« Reply #13 on: November 29, 2010, 06:18:33 PM »
Big hugs to you, sweetie.  You're never too old to still need your mommy.   :grouphug;
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« Reply #14 on: November 29, 2010, 07:56:50 PM »
Oh, no.  Oh, I am so very sorry to hear this.  Thank you for telling us and giving us the opportunity to give your our condolences.  If there is anything we can do for you, please do let us know. :cuddle;
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« Reply #15 on: November 29, 2010, 08:10:20 PM »
I am so sorry to hear your mother passed away. This must be very hard for you and your father. She will always be with you and memmories of her will last forever. I hope you are doing well.
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« Reply #16 on: November 29, 2010, 11:52:08 PM »
So sorry to hear of the loss of your Mom. Mine passed away in 1962 and still I miss her. Its hard to do, but, hang tough.   :cuddle;
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« Reply #17 on: November 30, 2010, 01:55:58 AM »
am so sorry karen. sending lots of love to you  :grouphug; :grouphug; :grouphug;
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« Reply #18 on: November 30, 2010, 05:15:06 AM »
So sorry to hear this sad news Karen.    :(
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« Reply #19 on: November 30, 2010, 06:29:05 AM »
So sorry Karen.  Sending you very many *huggles* ...
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« Reply #20 on: November 30, 2010, 10:45:19 AM »
I'm sorry to hear this Karen, I'm glad you still feel her. I lost my Mom in April, so I know how this hurts, I will be sending you peaceful thoughts, and tell your Dad I am very sorry for both of your losses.  :grouphug;
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« Reply #21 on: November 30, 2010, 01:16:14 PM »
aww Karen I am also so sorry to hear this. It is hard to lose a parent. I have lost both mine so I understand the loss. Please accept my condolences.
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« Reply #22 on: November 30, 2010, 04:08:01 PM »
Hugs to you sweetie.  May God bless your family.
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