Glad to hear she is coming good - the heart thing sucks though. RM, re Australian health care: I hear you, and Gregory says the same thing about ever moving to the US unless we had very good insurance. But Australian healthcare isn't free of this kind of mishap. One thing I'm starting to think is, if at all possible, avoid surgery.
Wait--are you saying not to go through with her transplants surgery?
Quote Wait--are you saying not to go through with her transplants surgery? No way. My husband has had two transplants and is much better off for them, he far prefers the transplant life to the dialysis life even though both have their own challenges.Moreover, I don't know much about Jennifer's situation, so I would be mad to make such a statement. No no. My comment to Richard was definitely NOT about Jenn.So what did I mean? I guess my comment was addressed to RM's more general remarks about health systems, and I had in mind not so much the question of whether renal patients should have surgery, so much as whether anyone should have surgery as a first option. I wrote an essay about what I meant and have deleted it from this post because this thread is about you and Jenn. I've made a new thread elaborating on general remarks about surgery, which is here: http://ihatedialysis.com/forum/index.php?topic=29438.msg464005#msg464005I'm very sorry to have sounded like I was commenting on your sister, her situation is very distressing and it strikes me she had little choice throughout most of it.