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« Reply #25 on: January 22, 2009, 05:53:27 AM »
Don't worry, the right time will come!!!   Never as fast as we want it, but it will.  He is sweet for offerring!! 
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11/04  Hemo in clinic
6/07 hemo at HOME! 
2/3/09 - Transplant from an angel of a friend!!!
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« Reply #26 on: January 22, 2009, 07:01:47 PM »
Baby for pain? that shouldnt be an issue to make a better life for someone you really care about or love. my donor has never spent a night in the hospital until day of tx plant..he is 48yrs old and dont have a high threshold of pain ..  he told local news reported if he had more than one kidney to give he would do it all over again..and of course that was stated earlier that the testing would have determined if he would be a candidate or not and would have talked to a counselor to see if he was being co hearsed in donating or not..but anyways  good things come to those wait!!  sorry for getting your feelings hurt and being let down..God Bless!!
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« Reply #27 on: January 22, 2009, 08:04:44 PM »
Great attitude. I hope the best for you!
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« Reply #28 on: January 22, 2009, 09:23:35 PM »
Jess
  Ive been thinking about you all day.  Don't let this get you down, you'll get the right kidney in good time...and it will be prefect for you!  This wasn't meant to be.
  Keep your chin up kiddo!

Auntie Wenchie :)
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« Reply #29 on: January 22, 2009, 09:54:42 PM »
Yeah Jess.. you 'n' me are both going to get transplants and party at an IHD event. I can tell :) :) :)

(shhh don't tell Jason that.. he may get the wrong idea  :rofl; )

 :cuddle; :cuddle; :cuddle; :cuddle;
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3/1993: Diagnosed with Kidney Failure (FSGS)
25/7/2006: Started hemo 3x/week 5 hour sessions :(
27/11/2010: Cadaveric kidney transplant from my wonderful donor!!! "Danny" currently settling in and working better every day!!! :)

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« Reply #30 on: January 23, 2009, 08:31:02 AM »

Hey Jess  :cuddle; Big hug for you sweet girl!
I'm like you, I avoid asking for help and opening myself up for possible disappointment.
But when it comes to kidneys, that's pretty much standard operating procedure.
Keep your heart and your options open, your miracle will come!
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Jenna is our daughter, bad bladder damaged her kidneys.
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7 yr transplant lost due to rejection.
She did PD Sept. 2013 - July 2017
Found a swap living donor using social media, friends, family.
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Her story ---> https://www.facebook.com/WantedKidneyDonor
Please watch her video: http://youtu.be/D9ZuVJ_s80Y
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« Reply #31 on: January 23, 2009, 08:34:11 AM »
Sending you special hugs today.  :cuddle;  Love you!
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« Reply #32 on: January 23, 2009, 09:05:51 AM »
i'm sorry things didn't work out. i'm sure your boy friends mother is just scared. donating isn't something she would do, so she doesn't understand why he would. it sounds like you have a good attitude about it however.  :cuddle; :cuddle;
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« Reply #33 on: January 24, 2009, 06:44:49 PM »
I'm sorry to hear about the turn in events.  :grouphug; :grouphug; :grouphug;
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