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« on: February 17, 2009, 04:53:27 PM »

So, Two Days after Christmas, My Husband, who does Dialysis, was admitted to the Hospital with Pneumonia. He was in for 17 Days. He came Home and was Home for exactly Two Weeks. He went to Dialysis, that Day and His Heart rate was so High, they sent Him back to the Pulmonary Specialist, who had Discharged Him from the Hospital. He went right from the Doctors Office, back into the Hospital again. Twenty Days, He was in this time. He just got Home Sunday. He has an Infection in His Lungs, that will not clear up. He was checked for Staph, MRSA, You name it. It's just all from the Pneumonia. Now He is Home on IV Antiobiotics for a Month, ( a Backpack with Tubes, that connects to a Catheter in His Chest, which they put in ) He is also on Oxygen, 24/7. There are Tubes, running all over the Place and this is just at Home, not to Mention His Hookup at Dialysis.  He is very Distressed, about all the Tubes and I am " Watching My Step" so I don't trip over anything. Just letting off a little Steam here Tonight. Keeping the Faith.
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« Reply #1 on: February 17, 2009, 05:00:36 PM »

Good luck and God Bless!  Take care of both of you!  :grouphug; :grouphug;
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Take it one day, one hour, one minute, one second at a time.

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« Reply #2 on: February 17, 2009, 06:40:37 PM »


Aww Mizar - it's been a tough time - sounds awful for both of you.
I hope things improve soon! HUGS and prayers coming your way!  :grouphug;
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« Reply #3 on: February 17, 2009, 07:10:08 PM »

Mizar my thoughts are with you both. I know what you are going through and it just is not easy, however you will get through this and better days are ahead. Take care of both of you.   :grouphug;
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« Reply #4 on: February 17, 2009, 08:28:58 PM »

Thinking of you both and hoping things start to improve soon.   :grouphug;
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« Reply #5 on: February 17, 2009, 09:06:40 PM »

Hope things will improve soon.  Take care.
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« Reply #6 on: February 17, 2009, 11:50:29 PM »

  :ukflag;  I also know the feeling, the tubes going in and out of John I often wondered if every one knew what they were all there for. To wards the end of the first week John was in hospital each time I went to visit another one was either added or taken away, They even had to use his foot for one. I think I would have refused to have John home if had still had the tubes.  It is such a big responsibility looking after them, we carers all turn into nurses at the end of the day, one nurse even said to me "are you an x nurse" you seem to know how to handle a patient, and I've only been looking after John for just over 2 years.  Everyone on this site is always saying to take care of your self and I am saying the same to you.  I think this site has taught me so much, just wish I lived near some of the people so we could give each other a hug now and then I could really do with it. Yvonne the wife.
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« Reply #7 on: February 18, 2009, 12:46:42 AM »

If we look at the body and the important organs, seems as if 'he' needs a bit of help with a couple of them.
The tubing will become familiar in a couple of days, or maybe within 24 hours.  I am praying that you do not
become too overwhelmed....

Mizar's husband:     please relax, sounds like M is gonna take care of you...... :cheer:
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« Reply #8 on: February 21, 2009, 04:30:32 PM »

 :grouphug;
Geez mizar
I know how you feel about the tubes, cords etc
I am very clumsy and there was an incident or three when I did in fact trip over tubes and pulled out a cord accidently F***
Dad and I laugh about it now but at the time I was worried sick
You will get used to working around them
You are amazing
You are strong and capable and knowledgeable
What a wonderful caregiver
Lots of love to you both
Hope everything improves soon
Take some time to smell these beautiful flowers
 :flower; :flower; :flower; :flower; :flower; :flower; :flower; :flower; :flower; :flower; :flower; :flower; :flower;
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« Reply #9 on: February 21, 2009, 08:23:10 PM »

 :grouphug;
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« Reply #10 on: February 22, 2009, 07:23:45 AM »

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« Reply #11 on: February 22, 2009, 01:53:51 PM »

 :flower; :cuddle; :flower; :grouphug; :flower; :cuddle;


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« Reply #12 on: February 23, 2009, 06:34:11 AM »

 :flower; :flower; :flower; :flower; :flower; :flower; :flower; :flower; :flower; :flower;
 :grouphug; :grouphug; :grouphug; :grouphug; :grouphug; :grouphug; :grouphug;
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