When Joe was in the hospital a few weeks ago, this one nurse really made me mad. I still think about it, even weeks later. It had been over 24 hours since he'd had anything to eat, almost 24 hours since he had something to drink, was groggy from surgery and strapped to a gurney and being rolled down to the dialysis unit in the hospital. I was walking behind him. The nurses taking him downstairs had to stop at a nurses' station to pick up something and as he's laying there a nurse (a B**** is more like it) walked up to him and said "You're a big guy!" Then she takes her glass of water and standing over him basically in his face drinks it. He sleepily makes a sort of joke saying, "Oh, don't drink that in front of me." So she says, "Oh, yeah? Mmmmmmm" and downs the whole rest of the drink. It's hard to explain how annoying and immature it was, so just trust me on that. She went on to say something about her husband being a big guy and she "likes big guys" blah blah blah. I gave her a nasty look and we moved on. I asked Joe about it later if it bothered him (her drinking it in his face) and he said no, but it really made me upset. How would you have felt about it?