I was diagnosed with SLE(Lupus) when I was 12 years old. I started having some little symptoms, which at the time we did not even think of them as symptoms because I was a healthy 12 year old kid. We just thought they were "growing pains", some of the things that were happening were I was walking to school over a mile everyday to and from, and one day it felt as if I was "walking on rocks", my mom shrugged it off to growing pains and after a week or so it went away. ONe day after playing catch outside with my brothers, my thumb got swollen the next day, my mom thought I broke my thumb, we went to the dr's office... doctor looked at it and said no x-ray needed, it isn't broke, i'm sending you to a rheumatologist. So off we go, and he says I have RA (Rheumatoid Arthritis), that started a series of tons of blood work and other tests. After months and months of testing, I'm dx'd with SLE.
One day I don't feel well, like flu like feeling.. I had a tummy ache and wanted to lay down. So I was in my bedroom sleeping while my dad was in the den chatting with a neighbor. For some reason I got up, and went and layed on the couch where I could be seen (never done this before or ever again in my life) and I had a seziure. My dad rushed me to the ER and carried me in while I had another seziure in his arms. I had many more while in the ER, they were all caused from uncontrolled high blood pressure. This caused a series of hospital stays. I was in the hospital months at a time, on over 9 different blood pressure medicines and still unable to control my blood pressure. I was transferred by ambulance to another city and hospital (Shands in Gainsville, FL) and after a month of being there they got me under control and sent back to my home hospital in Jacksonville, FL.
Year's I was in and out of the hospital with uncontrolled blood pressure and seziures, and my RA got so bad that I literally had to crawl to get around the house, with knee pads on, or don't move at all. In order to get off the couch, I had to sit and rock myself like an old person, and still lucky if I got up.
Finally around age 15 my kidneys started failing. The doctors started me on cytoxin treatments (chemotherapy), after doing this for about a year, my kidney function went back to normal.
Due to being on very high doses of presnisone and at times solumedrol (IV form of prednisone) my ankles started to deteriorate, and my orthopedic surgeon (OS for the Jacksonville Jaguars at the time) fused both of my ankles together so I have 2 screws in each ankle, and was told I will not walk ever again. However my srugeon was so awesome, I can walk, and nobody knows I have fused ankles unless I tell them.
I turn 17, and my kidneys start to fail again, this time i'm between insurance companies so I have no insurance, so they cannot do the cytoxin again as planned.... so I'm told that there's nothing they can do but let my kidneys fail, and when I can start dialysis the goverment will pay for that.
There's so much more in the middle of all that, I can't even begin to fit it all in... however you must remember EVERYONE with SLE, has different experiences and stories and no 2 people with the same disease deal with it the same way, or go through the same issues.
Good Luck sweety.