Welcome. I also am loosing my kidneys due to lupus, but I was lucky enough to have a 20 year decline after bad active lupus in high school before my kidneys were at a point where I needed dialysis. I'm happy to say I've not have active lupus since the early 1990s, its hard to say when it really went into remission since I was treated with Cytoxan throughout college and Plaquenil until early 2000 when a doctor finally said why are you still on it and phased me off with a wait and see mentality...Good luck on NxStage, it sure sounds like people feel its the best treatment.