I have had 2 deceased donor transplants. The first was when I was 13 years old (1996) and my second was just 7 months ago.
They were both out of the blue phone calls saying a kidney was available.
My kidney i just received was a 1am phone call. was then told I could relax till I had to be at the hospital by 6am... whos kidding though, you cant sleep when you have news like that. I was hyped!
It took 24 hrs. of staying in a hospital room having cross match tests and 2 hours of dialysis prior to transplant time. It made for a long and anxious day of waiting! Very emotional!!! I was taking down to the OR by 2am the next day and very cool that I saw my kidney come off the elevator aside of me and went into the OR knowing my kidney wa s in the organ box next to me!!
I was highly sensitized at 100% but found 6/6 match!
Surgery took 2.5 hours. My first transplant the kidney was put on my right side. This transplant they put my kidney on the left side, due to scaring from a nephrectomy. The incision is about 6in. long starts a little above my bellybutton. I spent a day in ICU on the transplant floor.
I was in the hospital for 7 days thought things were going great. Was sent home but ended up returning less then 24 hours later due to my
hyper active parathyroid. So that was a different situation then most people.
The worst was having to wait while they do the testing prior to transplant that day. Otherwise things seemed to go well. I did have my husband and family around to help with everything, especially since I had a 3 year old. I was also very week from all the weight I lost in the hospital. My family was a huge support!
7 months post TX and going strong!!
Best of luck all !!!