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« on: February 12, 2007, 09:38:17 PM »


Husband saves wife by donating kidney

By Gina Joseph
Macomb Daily Staff Write

Monday, February 12, 2007r

It's safe to say Shawn Robinson is off the hook for Valentine's Day, this year and maybe even the next. After all, it's not every day a guy saves his wife's life.
"I can't say enough about it," said Pam Robinson of Fraser, who underwent a kidney transplant made possible through her husband Shawn's donation. "He has never been through surgery. Yet he did this for me. He's a great guy. We've been married for 32 years."

Pam and Shawn are the same age, 52. An athletic and energetic couple, they've always enjoyed activities such as swimming, cycling and walking, which is how the two met in the first place. They bumped into each other on a sidewalk, were introduced by a friend, dated and have been married ever since. They have three sons, ages 21, 24, and 27 and their own construction company. Theirs is a busy life.

Or was until March, when Pam was diagnosed with Polycystic Kidney Disease, a life-threatening illness that affects more than 600,000 Americans and approximately 12.5 million people worldwide. Cysts grow and over time multiply, increasing the mass of the kidneys, resulting in a number of problems including renal failure. It doesn't have a dramatic effect on a person's outward appearance because it is an internal disorder. Pam's condition was discovered because of high-blood pressure and family history.

In 1986, Pam's father, Joe Gaunt, died of PKD. He was 59. After the diagnosis, Pam found herself in the same horrible predicament as her dad -- sitting in a chair hooked to a dialysis machine, three times a week, four hours a day, and unable to travel away from home without great difficulty.

"Watching my dad for all those years," Pam said, "I knew I didn't want to be attached to the kidney machine. My sister was 2 years old and he wanted to live long enough to raise her. He was on the machine for 15 years. He died four days before her 17th birthday."

"It was scary," said Shawn, referring to the situation he and Pam suddenly found themselves in. "She's a trooper and she just did what she had to do."

She went on dialysis.

During her visits to the center, Pam got to know some of the other patients. One of them told her about an informational meeting for people interested in organ donation, which she and Shawn decided to attend.

"It was really cool to see how life can change," Shawn said.

One minute you're on dialysis, like Pam. The next minute, you're getting a new organ and a second chance at life. It's a different life having to take immune suppressant drugs, but still drastically improved. Shawn and Pam met two transplant recipients: one received a kidney from the cadaver of a young child and the other from a living donor.

"A healthy body easily replaces blood, blood platelets and bone marrow, so they can be donated more than once. A person can donate a single kidney or part of the liver while alive. The remaining kidney can provide some of the function of the donated kidney, and the liver grows back (regenerates) to its original size in a few weeks. It is also possible to donate part of one lung, part of the pancreas, or part of the intestine, although these organs do not regenerate," according to the Health Resources and Services Administration of the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services.

After the meeting Pam's name was added to the transplant waiting list. The prospect of a new kidney was encouraging for Pam. Shawn, however, didn't want her to live the life her dad led for 15 years, so he volunteered to become a living donor.

"Every test came back good and it just snowballed," Shawn said.

A couple of weeks ago, a team of transplant specialists at William Beaumont Hospital in Royal Oak successfully completed the removal of Shawn's left kidney and Pam's transplant surgery. The first words joyfully expressed by Pam following the operation were, "No more dialysis!"

"I was a little sore afterward," Shawn said. "The thing that threw me off was having no energy, but other than that I feel fine."

"He really, really loves me," Pam said, of her husband and his wonderful gift.
 
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« Reply #1 on: February 14, 2007, 06:06:16 PM »

"After all, it's not every day a guy saves his wife's life."

Saved her life? Could she not have done dialysis? Sorry but I really hate when media outlets state it this way like the person had no choice get a transplant or DIE. He did not SAVE her life, he donated a kidney. He did not pull her from a fiery inferno. ::)

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« Reply #2 on: February 14, 2007, 06:20:46 PM »

It says she did go on dialysis. Every transplant I have had, I believe the person donating"saved my life".. I totally understand how they feel. My mom saved my life the first time, and this second time someone else did. Not that I couldn't of still been on dialysis and living, but its such a dramatic change in the quality of life and a person feels.. it feels as if you life has been saved.
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« Reply #3 on: February 14, 2007, 06:25:15 PM »

He gave her a more active life but did not necessarily save her life. There are people who have been on dialysis for 30 years out there, I guess they have to be living to be on dialysis.  >:D
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« Reply #4 on: February 14, 2007, 11:47:30 PM »

It says she did go on dialysis. Every transplant I have had, I believe the person donating"saved my life".. I totally understand how they feel. My mom saved my life the first time, and this second time someone else did. Not that I couldn't of still been on dialysis and living, but its such a dramatic change in the quality of life and a person feels.. it feels as if you life has been saved.

And that is your opinion, however it is not fact.

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« Reply #5 on: February 14, 2007, 11:53:52 PM »

I'm on dialysis.... I think i'm alive .... someone pinch me  ::)

I know i'm not dead   :clap;
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« Reply #6 on: February 14, 2007, 11:56:13 PM »

Well - he saved her from dialysis.
And no, it's not everyday that a guy saves his wife's life, and maybe this wasn't that day either.
Just not a well written article, for example:
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"He really, really loves me," Pam said, of her husband and his wonderful gift.

So if he didn't donate... ? Couldn't he still really love her? How about a gift of a new car. Would that do it?
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Jenna is our daughter, bad bladder damaged her kidneys.
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7 yr transplant lost due to rejection.
She did PD Sept. 2013 - July 2017
Found a swap living donor using social media, friends, family.
New kidney in a paired donation swap July 26, 2017.
Her story ---> https://www.facebook.com/WantedKidneyDonor
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« Reply #7 on: February 17, 2007, 01:16:24 PM »

It says she did go on dialysis. Every transplant I have had, I believe the person donating"saved my life".. I totally understand how they feel. My mom saved my life the first time, and this second time someone else did. Not that I couldn't of still been on dialysis and living, but its such a dramatic change in the quality of life and a person feels.. it feels as if you life has been saved.

And that is your opinion, however it is not fact.

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Yes, it is.  :)  And most transplant receipients I talk to feel the same... obviously our lives weren;t "saved", because we weren't dead or on the verge of death at that moment... but it's literally a night and day type change where you FEEL as if you life was saved. :)
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« Reply #8 on: February 17, 2007, 01:44:42 PM »

This is a discussion that has been discussed on a few boards (I know Dialysis Joe of D&T City has gotten frustrated at how the media portrays dialysis for years now) and it is an interesting one. The general public knows so little about dialysis except what they hear in the newspapers and on the news "His life was saved!" or "He will die unless he gets a kidney soon!"  Because of this so many times when I say I am on dialysis and have no kidney function people are so shocked and say, "But you can't live without kidneys!!" and "I thought dialysis was to HELP the kidney! But if you have NO kidneys then why are you on dialysis and how are you alive??!"

Because of how the media portrays dialysis the general public have the wrong idea of what dialysis is and why they should donate.
If they think that people on dialysis still have at least one kidney then why should they donate?
If you can live on a machine (even if they think it is helping a kidney out) then why do you need a kidney?

I know the media loves publicity and drama is the way to get it the fastest but the way they do it is by sympathy and shock. If they said, "She could have lived years on dialysis but this transplant gave her back some normalcy" it would only downplay it in the editors eyes and not make for a good article. But maybe people would have the facts if the papers and the news portrayed kidney failure properly.
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