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« on: December 11, 2011, 10:24:43 AM »

December 10, 2011, 01:00 PM
Park Rapids man donates kidney
Atonement for past transgressions can take many forms. For Park Rapids resident Paul Schultz, it was life saving.
By: Sarah Smith, Park Rapids Enterprise

Atonement for past transgressions can take many forms.

For Park Rapids resident Paul Schultz, it was life saving.

It began with a hug on April 10, preceded by seven years of sobriety after a 27-year battle with drug and alcohol abuse.

On that fateful day, Schultz, 46, had attended a state Narcotics Anonymous convention.

At the door, Becky Rodriguez gave him a warm hug and welcomed him. The two became friends on Facebook. At the convention they talked for hours.

Becky, from St. Paul, was overflowing with thoughts about what they could do for others to help them in their recovery. She’d been sober 12 years. Both consented to have their names used in this story.

“She hugged me and told me she loved me and she was glad I was there,” Schultz recalled of the momentous meeting.

In July, Schultz discovered Rodriguez was on dialysis and needed a kidney transplant to stay alive. She’d never mentioned it in the four months they’d exchanged thoughts. It was all about what they could do for others, Schultz said.

“Some people in the groups I go to are selfless people and I wanted to be like them,” Schultz said Thursday from his hospital room at Hennepin County Medical Center’s transplant wing.

“From the moment I made the decision to get tested – I didn’t even know what blood type I was – I just knew I’d be the donor,” Schultz said.

Tuesday the pair underwent the transplant surgery, Schultz donating a kidney to his new friend. By Thursday Schultz, although still in some pain, was planning on leaving the hospital by the weekend.

Facebook carried live updates of their surgery for friends and family who could not be there.

Becky is just down the hall. He shuffled down to her room to put her on the phone. She was too tired to talk, but he said his kidney mate was “doing good.”

She did change her middle name to “I got a new kidney.”

Schultz works at Team Industries in Audubon. It will be awhile before he’s medically cleared to return to work, he said.

He spent his life doing odd jobs, carpentry, driving a tow truck and battling his demons, he acknowledged.

Friends have set up a recovery fund at State Bank of Park Rapids for both Paul and Becky. He has no long- or short-term disability insurance while he convalesces.

“A lot of people are in our recovery family,” he said. Friends drove him to the hospital and “have been popping in and out,” he said.

Terri Conser, a former area resident and longtime friend of Schultz’s, said it’s not out of character for him to perform a selfless act.

“What an inspiration, truly, for someone,” she said. “What a hug can do to change somebody else’s life. He saved her life.

“We hope with every story about transplants that more people might consider this life-saving and life-improving gift,” said HCMC media specialist Christine Hill.

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http://www.parkrapidsenterprise.com/event/article/id/30742/
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Jenna is our daughter, bad bladder damaged her kidneys.
Was on in-center hemodialysis 2003-2007.
7 yr transplant lost due to rejection.
She did PD Sept. 2013 - July 2017
Found a swap living donor using social media, friends, family.
New kidney in a paired donation swap July 26, 2017.
Her story ---> https://www.facebook.com/WantedKidneyDonor
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« Reply #1 on: December 11, 2011, 01:55:20 PM »

Okarol............WHAT AN ENCOURAGING STORY! WOW... THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR SHARING THAT.. AND I DO REALIZE ITS PROBABLY GONNA TAKE ABOUT THE SAME THING FOR ME,, IF AND WHEN WE GET TO THAT POINT... ONE QUESTION i HAVE HAD,, DO U HAVE TO BE ON DIALYSIS BEFORE THEY WILL PUT YOU ON A TRANSPLANT LIST?
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« Reply #2 on: December 13, 2011, 02:01:19 AM »

In our city you can get wait listed when your GFR falls below 20, before starting dialysis. Check with local transplant hospitals and ask what their criteria is.
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Jenna is our daughter, bad bladder damaged her kidneys.
Was on in-center hemodialysis 2003-2007.
7 yr transplant lost due to rejection.
She did PD Sept. 2013 - July 2017
Found a swap living donor using social media, friends, family.
New kidney in a paired donation swap July 26, 2017.
Her story ---> https://www.facebook.com/WantedKidneyDonor
Please watch her video: http://youtu.be/D9ZuVJ_s80Y
Living Donors Rock! http://www.livingdonorsonline.org -
News video: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J-7KvgQDWpU
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« Reply #3 on: December 13, 2011, 09:08:59 AM »

I actually just heard back from my social worker yesterday.. and she said I can go ahead and get a referral from doc to be put on list...I just know this is gonna be an uphill battle.. but I am ready..
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« Reply #4 on: December 13, 2011, 09:52:14 AM »

I actually just heard back from my social worker yesterday.. and she said I can go ahead and get a referral from doc to be put on list...I just know this is gonna be an uphill battle.. but I am ready..

This is just fantastic news.

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« Reply #5 on: December 14, 2011, 08:01:01 PM »

I actually just heard back from my social worker yesterday.. and she said I can go ahead and get a referral from doc to be put on list...I just know this is gonna be an uphill battle.. but I am ready..

Good, keep moving forward, one step at a time.  :2thumbsup;
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Admin for IHateDialysis 2008 - 2014, retired.
Jenna is our daughter, bad bladder damaged her kidneys.
Was on in-center hemodialysis 2003-2007.
7 yr transplant lost due to rejection.
She did PD Sept. 2013 - July 2017
Found a swap living donor using social media, friends, family.
New kidney in a paired donation swap July 26, 2017.
Her story ---> https://www.facebook.com/WantedKidneyDonor
Please watch her video: http://youtu.be/D9ZuVJ_s80Y
Living Donors Rock! http://www.livingdonorsonline.org -
News video: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J-7KvgQDWpU
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