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AnnaLee
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« Reply #25 on: April 10, 2011, 08:30:54 PM »
Something similar happened to me before, but I was simply fat and wearing a smock top [back in the day when they were in style].  I had just moved into a new neighborhood and my new neighbor approached me and excitedly asked "When are you due?"  To make,  :(matters worse, I had been dealing with infertility for years and would have given anything to tell her all about my "due date". :(
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« Reply #26 on: April 11, 2011, 12:19:59 PM »
I have PKD also. I've had rude remarks made to me too-people thinking I'm expecting.

Is this something that will go away, the pregnant look, if I have a nephrectomy??
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Diagnosed with Polycystic Kidney Disease at age 19.
Renal Failure at age 38 (2010) came about 2 hrs close to dying. Central line put in an emergency.
Began dialysis on Aug 15, 2010.
Creatine @ time of dialysis: 27. I almost died.
History of High Blood Pressure
I have Neuropathy and Plantar Fasciitis in My Feet
AV Fistula created in Nov. 2011, still buzzing well!
Transplanted in April, 2013. My husband and I participated in the Living Donor paired exchange program. I nicknamed my kidney "April"
Married 18 yrs,  Mom to 3 kids to twin daughters (One that has PKD)  and a high-functioning Autistic son
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« Reply #27 on: May 01, 2011, 06:34:43 PM »
I will paraphrase my ex:
MY god, if you get any fatter you're going to die!

I tried to explain that I had only gained about 7 lbs since starting Pd. And that my solution weighed about that much. So I hadn't actually gained any weight.

She smirked and said ya right.
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« Reply #28 on: May 01, 2011, 11:02:15 PM »
when my transplant kidney was failing I started gaining a lot of fluid in my abdomen...a woman at a checkout lane asked me "When are you due?" After I said "I'm not" she didn't even bother to apologize...I wrote a very nasty letter complaining about the woman (I would have been fine if she would've apologized) and I got $350 worth of stuff free!!!

Another thing I would say to someone that was really bitchy and they were commmenting about my "pregnant" stomach....
"Ya know I may have a big stomach but someday that could change, but unfortunately for you, you will always be a inconsiderate *itch!!"

xo,
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Born with autosomal recessive polycystic kidney disease
1995 - AV Fistula placed
Dec 7, 1999 cadaver transplant saved me from childhood dialysis!
10 transplant years = spleenectomy, gall bladder removed, liver biopsy, bone marrow aspiration.
July 27, 2010 Started dialysis for the first time ever.
June 21, 2011 2nd kidney nonrelated living donor
September 2013 Liver Cancer tumor.
October 2013 Ablation of liver tumor.
Now scans every 3 months to watch for new tumors.
Now Status 7 on the wait list for a liver.
How about another decade of solid health?
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