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« on: November 17, 2010, 01:24:10 AM »
Not sure if this is the right place to post this if not mods you can move it.
After a bad day at dialysis I came home and was told by my brother that my mom has passed away. I was setting here thinking about her and her life and i remember something i totaly forgot. Ever since she got her drivers license she has always checked the doner box so yes she is a organ doner. So maybe in death her organs will save somebodys life. Thanks mom you always thought of others before yourself.
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« Reply #1 on: November 17, 2010, 01:46:10 AM »
 :cuddle; I am sorry about losing your mom, but it's so wonderful that you recalled something that was important to her, and you recognize her selfless act. Best wishes and condolences to you and your family.
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Jenna is our daughter, bad bladder damaged her kidneys.
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7 yr transplant lost due to rejection.
She did PD Sept. 2013 - July 2017
Found a swap living donor using social media, friends, family.
New kidney in a paired donation swap July 26, 2017.
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« Reply #2 on: November 17, 2010, 04:39:38 AM »
Sorry to hear about your Mom.   :grouphug;
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Pyelonephritis (began at 8 mos old)
Home haemo 1980-1985 (self-cannulated with 15 gauge sharps)
Cadaveric transplant 1985
New upper-arm fistula April 2008
Uldall-Cook catheter inserted May 2008
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(2 1/2 hours X 5 weekly)
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« Reply #3 on: November 17, 2010, 06:02:05 AM »
I'm sooo sorry to hear about your Mom.  My Dad passed away a year ago this month.  I feel that your Mom is going to be blessing some very needy people and knowing that, I hope that give you comfort.

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9/1990 Found out I have Type 1 Diabetes
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« Reply #4 on: November 17, 2010, 06:31:26 AM »
So sorry for the loss of your mom.  :cuddle;
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« Reply #5 on: November 17, 2010, 12:02:22 PM »
I hope her organs were able to save a life.  What a wonderful thing she did.  I am so very sorry for your loss.  I lost my mom this year, too.  Let's celebrate the end of this hideous year.
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« Reply #6 on: November 17, 2010, 04:07:07 PM »
I'm sorry to hear about your mom.

But maybe in death she can help to save someone else's life.

Take care.
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« Reply #7 on: November 17, 2010, 07:13:52 PM »
Im so sorry too.. Im another who has just lost their mom.  Mine just 9/10/10.... It hurts a lot and i miss her  :'(  I wish you well and hope your doing ok with it.  What a good thing she did with her donating.  I finally did that myself so i think it's special..   :grouphug;
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« Reply #8 on: November 17, 2010, 07:42:00 PM »
 :grouphug;
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« Reply #9 on: November 17, 2010, 08:17:22 PM »
I'm sorry for your loss.
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« Reply #10 on: November 18, 2010, 11:25:26 PM »
Thanks everbody for your kind words. Been very hard here the past few days everybody is running around going crazy. I am thankful for my IHD family to give me support and I am happy my mom's organs can be used by people who need them her legacy will live on in other people. Don't know who got them don't know if they will contact us. Mom was always thinking of others more than herself A big  :grouphug; for my IHD  family
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« Reply #11 on: November 19, 2010, 01:21:35 AM »
So sorry to hear about your Mom.   :grouphug;  Glad she is a donor too.
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« Reply #12 on: November 25, 2010, 05:09:16 AM »
Sorry to hear about your Mum Needlephobic. 
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wife of Gregory, who is the kidney patient: 
1986: kidney failure at 19 years old, cause unknown
PD for a year, in-centre haemo for 4 years
Transplant 1 lasted 21 years (Lucy: 1991 - 2012), failed due to Transplant glomerulopathy
5 weeks Haemo 2012
Transplant 2 (Maggie) installed Feb 13, 2013, returned to work June 17, 2013 average crea was 130, now is 140.
Infections in June / July, hospital 1-4 Aug for infections.

Over the years:  skin cancer; thyroidectomy, pneumonia; CMV; BK; 14 surgeries
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