So much for being able to make your own personal medical decisions. Someone is making a lot of money out of your husband's illness.
And your post illustrates the fallacy behind having employers pay for workers' medical insurance. I don't understand why we tolerate this system. I always thought that America was supposed to be pro-business, but burdening companies with this black-holish expense is crippling to business, and in this economy, companies are trying to trim their costs, so I am not surprised that you are worried about your situation.
I don't have any answers for you, only righteous indignation!!!!
rocker, I am indeed very cognizant of the fact that employers are not forced to carry their workers' insurance, which illustrates my point that this hodgepodge of benefit allocation is daft.
I don't understand why businesses have to be in the business (lol!) of providing insurance in the first place. It's a holdover from earlier days when there were ceilings on wages, and providing medical insurance was a perk and nothing more. But now that medical insurance is essential, well, that changes the dynamic entirely. It narrows the opportunities for small businesses to employ good people, and it hampers choice of employment for workers. How many people are trapped in jobs they don't like because they can't afford to risk their family's insurance coverage by making a move that could be a better career choice? This country is supposed to be about freedom, but our current medical insurance system traps us all.It's goverment by corporation. We've long ceased to be a democracy. Money rules. If you have it, you have power. If you have it, you get elected.
Of course the problem with the data base would be that vcarmody's provider would realize they could charge 10 times more than their already inflated prices. I think a lot of providers - those charging just $700/treatment - would realize they're leaving money on the table.