cariad - where did you try in San Diego? We actually ended up at Scripps Green in La Jolla and they were great. Jenna was listed there in 2006. They were so nice to her, and so efficient, that she switched her primary wait time from USC (which was 20 minutes from our home) to Scripps. The wait was an average of 2 - 3 years and they explained that much of their patient population was elderly, and they were more inclined to take extended-criteria kidneys rather than wait, which gave them a chance to be transplanted earlier. They were also very open to looking at strangers as donors, whereas USC and UCLA said no way.